-- Posted by tenchi1084 at 2:27 pm on July 4, 2008 all I'm finding are sex fiends...is there not one guy out there with morals? I mean, honestly, you don't have to be a saint, but a little restraint goes a long way at least.   I put an ad up looking for a bf, and even stated I wanted to take things slow....sure enough, tons of replies saying "lets meet here and have sex". I have to try so hard everywhere else in my life...must finding someone be just as hard?  I just want someone who will take things slow, and will live for  the moment, each and every moment.  not contribute to the deterioration of this nation.(being a sex hound doesn't help anything to establish that gay people are normal...it just says your a whore.) anyways, I am just tired of defending everything I am, from being disabled to being gay.  I'm sick of it. It's just one thing after another...so sex hounds and people abusing government services just doesn't make my case any easier to work. -- Posted by Aixi at 2:29 pm on July 4, 2008 You'll meet your man, don't worry.  Good things happen to those who wait. -- Posted by Myrrh at 2:30 pm on July 4, 2008 i hate to say it but a lot of people are like that =/ its sad but true. but that doesn't mean there aren't people who want to take it slowly and have a relationship...it just means they're harder to find -- Posted by pugdoglover5192 at 2:30 pm on July 4, 2008 noting. gay people are very nice! -- Posted by Byble at 2:30 pm on July 4, 2008 i know right its really stupid you can't find decent people around here!! its all like lets meet up, lets have cyber its like get out -blocked. -- Posted by PinkLotus at 2:34 pm on July 4, 2008 Most gay males are sex addicts. You are one of the very few people I respect. -- Posted by Wakeupcall at 2:39 pm on July 4, 2008 Thanks for the generilization there mate. -- Posted by tenchi1084 at 2:41 pm on July 4, 2008 well, I appreciate your respecting me.  and I'm sorry that the gay community is like that(I shouldn't have to apologize, but it's a habit...folks just humor my apologetic side :P ) anyways, I am going to provide myself as an example, and hope that others in the community catch on.   -- Posted by Byble at 2:48 pm on July 4, 2008 Quote: from tenchi1084 at 10:41 pm on July 4, 2008 well, I appreciate your respecting me. and I'm sorry that the gay community is like that(I shouldn't have to apologize, but it's a habit...folks just humor my apologetic side :P ) anyways, I am going to provide myself as an example, and hope that others in the community catch on. with you!! -- Posted by tenchi1084 at 2:49 pm on July 4, 2008 Quote: from Wakeupcall at 2:39 pm on July 4, 2008 Thanks for the generilization there mate. well, in france, I'm sure ya'll are like me...it's the U.S. that seems so fucked up.  don't get me wrong, I'm one patriotic MoFo...but I will call a wrong if I see one.  The U.S. is overly addicted to sex, and we need to get over it before we lose a generation, and possibly our nation... -- Posted by branflakes at 2:58 pm on July 4, 2008 Quote: from Aixi at 5:29 pm on July 4, 2008 Good things happen to those who wait. no. they don't. my advice: go out and meet people and pick-up your desired gender just like other guys do. Quote: from PinkLotus at 5:34 pm on July 4, 2008 Most gay males are sex addicts. You are one of the very few people I respect. it's people like you that make me despise my own country. -- Posted by tenchi1084 at 3:05 pm on July 4, 2008 Quote: from branflakes at 2:58 pm on July 4, 2008 Quote: from Aixi at 5:29 pm on July 4, 2008 Good things happen to those who wait. no. they don't. my advice: go out and meet people and pick-up your desired gender just like other guys do. thanks, but I'm not into "picking up" people.  I want to get to know someone, first. it's the habit of "picking up" that has made this country a laughing stock of the international community to begin with(though we could still kick ass,[not saying we would, mind you]). Quote: from PinkLotus at 5:34 pm on July 4, 2008 Most gay males are sex addicts. You are one of the very few people I respect. it's people like you that make me despise my own country. and why, praytell, would her comment do that? -- Posted by RainBowBow at 6:16 am on July 7, 2008 When talking about sex, people's paient go right out of space -- Posted by justcurious12 at 8:14 am on July 7, 2008 Well, since there is no love lost between gays and Christians, "monogamy" and "chastity" often go right out the window in the gay community. After all, those are "Victorian" concepts. You might find better luck offline. -- Posted by branflakes at 12:28 pm on July 7, 2008 Quote: from tenchi1084 at 6:05 pm on July 4, 2008 and why, praytell, would her comment do that? because she made a vast generalization about the entire gay population. doing that only creates strife and debate, rather than intelligent discussion. the presence of these sort of judgmental people is bringing down our country.