-- Posted by Anonymous at 10:42 am on July 5, 2008 My best friend is a guy and he sleeps with EVERY girl that walks. I mean he slept with like 5 people in the same week, he dosnt care. I know he is going to get stds if he dosnt already havr them, but thats not what concerns me right now.. He says the reason he does this is because he was with a girl for a year and a half and she cheated on him, and he never tried to really be with someone again. He could have so many girls, and he is such a good person. I'v been in love with him forever, but I could never be with him because he just sleeps with everyone, like a nympho.. How do I help him stop? I know he wants to because when we start to talk about it i can tell. -- Posted by iinsurgent at 10:43 am on July 5, 2008 Does he want to stop, or does just you want him to stop? -- Posted by death2fairytales at 10:43 am on July 5, 2008 He's a boy, it won't stop until he finds a girl that isn't a slut. -- Posted by TNAwrestlingfan at 10:43 am on July 5, 2008 That lucky motherfucker. Why can't I find that many sluts? -- Posted by Maxxie at 10:44 am on July 5, 2008 There's really nothing you can do about it you just have to deal with it. He's the only one whom can change him -- Posted by DarkSunshine at 10:44 am on July 5, 2008 If he wants to stop then just talk about it and try and get him to stop... I dont know how exactly but if your open with him maybe he will stop -- Posted by LindaRains93 at 10:44 am on July 5, 2008 tell him how you feel and remind him of the dangers. -- Posted by fenrir at 10:45 am on July 5, 2008 If he wants to do it, then how and why must you feel it necessary to limit his actions or personal freedom? -- Posted by forfallonyy at 10:46 am on July 5, 2008 just let him do what ever he wants to -- Posted by Pebbles123 at 10:47 am on July 5, 2008 One of my guyfriends is like that. Only difference is he makes sure that he has a girlfriend whenever so he's garunteed a rag. Then he dumps them gets another girlfriend. Blah blah. He's a lovely boy, but seriously...just get a fuck buddy :/ I said that to him and he was like "no..cos they always fall in love with me." -- Posted by Al Legator at 10:48 am on July 5, 2008 Frankly it is really childish and self destructive. EVERYbody gets their heart broken and a cheating ex is not a reason to be sowing seaeds of STDs all ove rthe place. (He has also been "sleeping with" every person those girls have been with if you know what I mean. And I'm sure that girls who'd sleep with this guy aren't all virgins,lol) If the subject comes up again, you can tell him to grow up and start being reponsible for himself. If he wants to know how STDs work and soemtiems work together (ie, those with certain STDs are more prone to also getting others STDs including HIV) there's a fair bit here: http://www.smart2ask.org/STD.htm