-- Posted by Anonymous at 1:46 am on July 6, 2008 I mean she keeps calling me because she wants me to give it to her again, and I let her come over eventually and i try to just spend time with her and get some kind of a feeling from her, and i just dont feel anything, not really even lust, but i'll give it to her since she's basically begging me for it. thing is i think its because i have my eyes set on someone else that i cant get out of my head, but i dont wanna end up really hurting this girl/     -- Posted by Malaria at 1:47 am on July 6, 2008 u proolly shud not fuck that chick if u dont want problems getting the other chick -- Posted by gief at 1:47 am on July 6, 2008 im just a sucker with no self esteem -- Posted by Cheeserock at 1:48 am on July 6, 2008 Well, it sounds like she's only interested in sex anyway. Let her down gently. -- Posted by agentxprovocateur at 1:48 am on July 6, 2008 gay -- Posted by ijustdontknow at 1:48 am on July 6, 2008 Dont give "it" to her, you are just stringing her on and going to cause her more pain in the end. If you were any decent of a human being you would tell her straight up and not string her along. -- Posted by locz thug mizzus at 1:49 am on July 6, 2008 Pretty much when you have sex with a girl, she feels that you care for her... unless you set it straight from the get-go that it's just SEX... :Sigh: But if you're really not feeling the sex girl you should tell her before you hurt her even more. Tell her that your sights are set on someone else -- Posted by Silenced at 1:49 am on July 6, 2008 let her know that you don't wanna be in a relationship with her and that friends with benefits is as far as you can go (because that's pretty much what it is) -- Posted by Anonymous at 1:49 am on July 6, 2008 Quote: from ijustdontknow at 1:48 am on July 6, 2008 Dont give "it" to her, you are just stringing her on and going to cause her more pain in the end. If you were any decent of a human being you would tell her straight up and not string her along. i've told her i dont want a relationship or anything but i think she feels like she can change my mind or something... -- Posted by bigdutchman at 1:51 am on July 6, 2008 cut her off soon... it'll just get harder for her if u let her get closer. -- Posted by locz thug mizzus at 1:53 am on July 6, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 3:49 am on July 6, 2008 i've told her i dont want a relationship or anything but i think she feels like she can change my mind or something... Yea a lot of girls are like that. They think that their sex will be good enough to change your mind about being in a REAL relationship with them... -- Posted by Lynds at 1:58 am on July 6, 2008 My advice 2 u would be 2 just flat out tell her.I mean rejection is the worst feeling and it's going 2 hurt her I'll tell u that right now that it absolutely will.But what would hurt her worst would be 4 u 2 continue 2 doing what ur doing because thats just giving her false hope when u feel nothing for her,if that makes any sense?Basically just tell her,she'll get pissed,she'll be hurt 4 a long time thats just a no brainer but telling the truth is better even though it sometimes hurts. -- Posted by Skyler72 rawrr at 2:02 am on July 6, 2008 Just tell her... it will hurt her more if you stab her in the back. -- Posted by roflfuckyou at 2:06 am on July 6, 2008 just say you arent interested to her face not email not msn not text message not through other people that is dog act -- Posted by branflakes at 8:30 am on July 6, 2008 you're going to have to reject her sooner or later, i hope you know. by not doing it now, you're not only increasing the chances that she'll be hurting more in the future, but you're also sacrificing your dignity and independence -- Posted by RainBowBow at 6:05 am on July 7, 2008 yup stands and be a player if you ask me -- Posted by nik1 at 1:56 pm on July 7, 2008 How do you tell her?  "Look, I think you are a great girl but I am not into you. I am not comfortable having sex with you or anyone else just for sex alone."  "Please, don't call anymore." Sometimes you have to hit people in the head with a mallet to get their attention....not literally, of course.  Get her attention. -- Posted by LivinMiiLyfe at 3:04 pm on July 7, 2008 well.. sounds like you got the good. l0l akeekee!