-- Posted by Anonymous at 10:35 pm on July 8, 2008 Ok so me and my boy friend are trying really hard to have a baby! The only problem is he is in the union and is traveling a lot right now and is leaving again tonight the 9th, and day 14 of my cycle when i'm suppose to be most fertile is the 10th! We've had sex 2 other times this month on the 4th and sometime before that but i forgot the date. So is it possible we could still get pregnant?!?! -- Posted by Jadien at 10:36 pm on July 8, 2008 Yes. -- Posted by plumc0la at 10:36 pm on July 8, 2008 it's always possible to get pregnant... unless you are on your period.. even then maybe .. :S -- Posted by Clara Bell at 10:37 pm on July 8, 2008 Why are you trying to have a child with someone you're not married to? Good luck with that. -- Posted by Anonymous at 10:38 pm on July 8, 2008 Quote: from peace love sunshine at 10:37 pm on July 8, 2008 Why are you trying to have a child with someone you're not married to? Good luck with that. we are getting married...but i refuse to get married until we have the money to go the Bahamas -- Posted by Wolf118 at 10:39 pm on July 8, 2008 Get married and have a steady job first. -- Posted by bengali at 10:41 pm on July 8, 2008 goign to the bahamas with a kid?? honeymoon? idk.. well listen.. just have sex every day hes here.. like.. multiple times..  u'll both be happy.. who needs a baby?  and if u get one thats cool.. jsut have sex.. it will be amazing -- Posted by Clara Bell at 10:41 pm on July 8, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 10:38 pm on July 8, 2008 Quote: from peace love sunshine at 10:37 pm on July 8, 2008 Why are you trying to have a child with someone you're not married to? Good luck with that.   we are getting married...but i refuse to get married until we have the money to go the Bahamas wow, high class much? -- Posted by Anonymous at 10:43 pm on July 8, 2008 Quote: from peace love sunshine at 10:41 pm on July 8, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 10:38 pm on July 8, 2008 Quote: from peace love sunshine at 10:37 pm on July 8, 2008 Why are you trying to have a child with someone you're not married to? Good luck with that.        we are getting married...but i refuse to get married until we have the money to go the Bahamas wow, high class much? whats that suppose to mean -- Posted by Clara Bell at 10:47 pm on July 8, 2008 i refuse to get married until we have enough money to go to the Bahamas. -- Posted by Anonymous at 10:49 pm on July 8, 2008 Quote: from peace love sunshine at 10:47 pm on July 8, 2008 i refuse to get married until we have enough money to go to the Bahamas. well i do he knows it and my parents...i get what i want i never settle for less -- Posted by AndWhenHeFalleth at 10:54 pm on July 8, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 1:38 am on July 9, 2008 Quote: from peace love sunshine at 10:37 pm on July 8, 2008 Why are you trying to have a child with someone you're not married to? Good luck with that.   we are getting married...but i refuse to get married until we have the money to go the Bahamas That would go much faster and be much easier without a child.  Children are very expensive.  I'm not one to say you have to be married to have a child, as that would be pretty hypocritical with me being a single mother, but you need to think about goals you want to accomplish first.  If your financial situation is keeping you from getting married, you really need to rethink getting pregnant right now.  A child is much more expensive than a vacation. -- Posted by swtpie at 7:24 am on July 9, 2008 lol, thats like with my boyfriend and I. I refuse to get married until we can afford it to go to Bora Bora. (South Pacific) It is possible you can be pregnant, but it's possible you aren't either. My boyfriend and I were trying for a long time. We had sex everyday of my ovulating time. 8 month later, still no baby. We've decided to put it on hold for now, so I can get healthier and until we buy a house. Sometimes when people are trying, they don't get pregnant right away. I read it normally happens 8+ months after they're trying. So, don't expect it to just happen. Sometimes it takes a while. -- Posted by dunebug at 5:57 pm on July 10, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 10:49 pm on July 8, 2008 Quote: from peace love sunshine at 10:47 pm on July 8, 2008 i refuse to get married until we have enough money to go to the Bahamas. well i do he knows it and my parents...i get what i want i never settle for less Great attitude for parenting. Because you know, parenting is completely about you. Fuck the kid, who cares what it wants or needs, it's just a designer hip item now!! All the teens are having them! Look at Gloucester.