-- Posted by tenchi1084 at 3:43 pm on July 13, 2008 How can a person love two people at one time?  I never had this happen before.  it's really strange. It's like, I love my room mate, but I keep telling myself not any more than friendship. I love another guy, who I am dating.  let's just call him "gary". I mean, though, I and my room mate agreed that there was nothing between us.  and when I'm going out with "gary", I have eyes only for him. but any other time, especially around my room mate, I feel strange, like I can't make direct eye contact anymore. They both have highly compatible personalities with me, also. room mate: funny, laid back, not very serious.  He forgets things a lot, so I have to remind him now and then of things.  I also never had anyone so into my cooking(every other room mate I've ever had was picky.  he loves all my cooking). con's: He doesn't take anything very serious.  It's hard to tell if he's depressed or just intensely thinking about something.  Extremely antisocial, but that's what amazes me about him. "gary": very intelligent, has a humorous side, and just easy to be around.  I can tell he is very determined to get what he wants.  I love his eyes(and wish he wouldn't hide them behind sunglasses...).   con's: I can't tell what he is thinking either...nor can I see his eyes because he wears sunglasses all the time I've seen him. I can usually read minds(not word for word, mind you, just basic emotions), so it's very odd I can't tell what either of them are thinking or feeling.  It's like, I look into my room mate's eyes, and I can get lost in how deep they seem.  I can't see "gary's" eyes, so it's a little bit unnerving.   ugh, I'm so ready to find the love of my life all of a sudden, when I made a promise years ago never to fall in love.  so much for that promise, I guess nothing seems guaranteed nor clear. -- Posted by Look into my eyes at 3:46 pm on July 13, 2008 Its absolutley possible. You can love 2 people. But it is on the other hand IMPOSSIBLE to be INLOVE with 2 people at the same time. -- Posted by Clouse227 at 3:46 pm on July 13, 2008 People can fall in love with many people at the same time. Its not a big deal. Happens all the time. Please not though, that "falling in love" is not the same or equal to genuine love. -- Posted by Katie57 at 3:47 pm on July 13, 2008 AHH bella edward and jakob!! -- Posted by Dragon22876 at 3:47 pm on July 13, 2008 Ur gay :o -- Posted by tenchi1084 at 9:23 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from Dragon22876 at 3:47 pm on July 13, 2008 Ur gay :o no Shnit sherlock.