-- Posted by Anonymous at 10:26 pm on July 13, 2008 im sick and tired of being 'the friend'...when do i get my chance to be 'the girl' it really pisses me off...i mean im not hideous i might not be the best looking but honestly what the fuck is wrong with me...i just needed to rant...sorry. -- Posted by HXC at 10:27 pm on July 13, 2008 you want to be the girl? answer: oral sex. flirt with him, then blow him. it'll work. -- Posted by Themakingofagod at 10:28 pm on July 13, 2008 It's all in perception.  There are certain things you do that make you seem better suited as a friend than as a boyfriend.  It has nothing to do with having good looks or a good personality, it has everything to do with the way girls see you.  You basically have to change the way you do some things, or your perception. -- Posted by 92perpetual at 10:29 pm on July 13, 2008 You need to meet different people. -- Posted by whips handcuffs at 10:30 pm on July 13, 2008 buy low cut shirts just let him know that you are a friend, but youre also a girl.