-- Posted by Zeuski at 10:44 pm on July 13, 2008 This my dear friends is going to be a rant so ... if you don't want to hear it read no further... You know what makes me sick? no its not the controlling sex addicts, or the assholes who run our country (all though they make me sick most of the time) what makes me sick is these teens or pre teens who are so attention starved that they give them selfs a label... the label of homosexuality or bisexuality. They go around, they tell all their friends... they let their peers find out, but they have a secret, a deep, dark, evil secret.... a secret that gives LGBT's a bad name.... These attention starved teens are really straight... They go around saying they aren't because its "Cool" or "The In thing". It makes me sick... I hear these kids saying to one of their closest friends "oh don't worry i'm not bi i just said i was to get this guy to like  me..." If you think about it it's almost hypocritical... Why you ask? because these same kids claiming to not be straight were the ones who had a problem with the LGBT's. I think its wrong... on so many levels.. lying like that... just to seem cool when they obviously aren't..... Being Gay, lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender isn't a fad, it isn't something you choose, It's something your born with... next time  you call your self an LGB or T because it's "cool" think about this... Do you know how much torture and humiliation we've gone through, do you know how many people hate us just because we are?  Get a Life... Stop lying about who you are... And to all of you who really truly are an LGB or T power to you live with pride we will be accepted fully someday. ::End rant:: Does anyone else feel this way? -- Posted by blufindr at 10:45 pm on July 13, 2008 yeah. cept i have yet to meet someone who was lying about their sexuality because it's cool. -- Posted by hound at 10:46 pm on July 13, 2008 Welcome to life. would you like fries with that? -- Posted by mcrfool at 10:47 pm on July 13, 2008 I don't think I know many people who lie about it.But I do think it's stupid, and I agree with you, especially the last part. -- Posted by dark eric at 10:47 pm on July 13, 2008 i feel ya dog -- Posted by 2kewl4u2know at 10:47 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from blufindr at 12:45 am on July 14, 2008 yeah. cept i have yet to meet someone who was lying about their sexuality because it's cool. I knew someone who claimed herself to be bi, not because it was "cool" but because she was attention-starved... -- Posted by fullmooncurse at 10:48 pm on July 13, 2008 At school a bunch of girls 'turned' bi in 8th grade year. It was reaflly annoying because I heard them taflking about how they let their bfs watch them makeout with girls. -- Posted by you cry for help at 10:49 pm on July 13, 2008 Reverse that, all people who are still in the closet about their sexuality because they want people to like them make you sick. Any GLBT person who claims to be straight is a lying scum. -- Posted by quittinglamejob at 10:49 pm on July 13, 2008 I really don't think it's a fad, I think it's a result of looser social attitudes when it comes to sexuality. Search for news articles about bisexuality in women -- there's these studies they're talking about now that demonstrate that perhaps people really do fluctuate between straight and bi and gay... And I think that this is a cause for major confusion these days. Am I straight? Bi? Gay? or a bit of everything depending on the circumstances? And how does that shape my image of my own sexuality as a teenager? I probably have a very cut-and-dry upbringing when it comes to sexuality. People are confused. -- Posted by Zeuski at 10:51 pm on July 13, 2008 In a way the people who are really bi sexual are getting a bad name... these kids who just think its cool or are so sex starved or attention starved make it seem like all bisexuals are like that -- Posted by quittinglamejob at 10:52 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from Zeuski at 10:51 pm on July 13, 2008 In a way the people who are really bi sexual are getting a bad name... these kids who just think its cool or are so sex starved or attention starved make it seem like all bisexuals are like that Yeah, but consider this: Some people really are bisexual some of the time, and not other times. Sexuality is a spectrum! Not a few categories! -- Posted by you cry for help at 10:52 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from Zeuski at 10:51 pm on July 13, 2008 In a way the people who are really bi sexual are getting a bad name... these kids who just think its cool or are so sex starved or attention starved make it seem like all bisexuals are like that Are we all old Asian ladies here or what, nobody fucking cares -- Posted by Zeuski at 10:55 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from quittinglamejob at 10:49 pm on July 13, 2008 I really don't think it's a fad, I think it's a result of looser social attitudes when it comes to sexuality. Search for news articles about bisexuality in women -- there's these studies they're talking about now that demonstrate that perhaps people really do fluctuate between straight and bi and gay... And I think that this is a cause for major confusion these days. Am I straight? Bi? Gay? or a bit of everything depending on the circumstances? And how does that shape my image of my own sexuality as a teenager? I probably have a very cut-and-dry upbringing when it comes to sexuality. People are confused. I know bisexuality exist but i also know there are people out there that are bisexual becasue its cool i mean its relaly common to be a "swinging door" but  there a people out there that use the name... to be "cool" -- Posted by velvettears123 at 10:58 pm on July 13, 2008 hear hear.... bout time someone said something.... n i agree 100% with that rant.... =) -- Posted by quittinglamejob at 11:00 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from Zeuski at 10:55 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from quittinglamejob at 10:49 pm on July 13, 2008 I really don't think it's a fad, I think it's a result of looser social attitudes when it comes to sexuality. Search for news articles about bisexuality in women -- there's these studies they're talking about now that demonstrate that perhaps people really do fluctuate between straight and bi and gay... And I think that this is a cause for major confusion these days. Am I straight? Bi? Gay? or a bit of everything depending on the circumstances? And how does that shape my image of my own sexuality as a teenager? I probably have a very cut-and-dry upbringing when it comes to sexuality.    People are confused. I know bisexuality exist but i also know there are people out there that are bisexual becasue its cool i mean its relaly common to be a "swinging door" but there a people out there that use the name... to be "cool" Have you ever considered that being a "swinging door" and not understanding what you're feeling may lead for you to end up in some awkward inbetween where you're doing these things "for the 'cool' factor?" It's like the story of the gay guy back in the day who didn't know you could be gay so there's all sorts of weird behaviours and rationalizations for the occasional manfucking. "swinging doors" probably don't know that being the "swinging door" is even an option, so they rationalize it. But seriously, the term "swinging door" is stupid. Like I said: no categories. A SPECTRUM. -- Posted by you cry for help at 11:00 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from Zeuski at 10:55 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from quittinglamejob at 10:49 pm on July 13, 2008 I really don't think it's a fad, I think it's a result of looser social attitudes when it comes to sexuality. Search for news articles about bisexuality in women -- there's these studies they're talking about now that demonstrate that perhaps people really do fluctuate between straight and bi and gay... And I think that this is a cause for major confusion these days. Am I straight? Bi? Gay? or a bit of everything depending on the circumstances? And how does that shape my image of my own sexuality as a teenager? I probably have a very cut-and-dry upbringing when it comes to sexuality.    People are confused. I know bisexuality exist but i also know there are people out there that are bisexual becasue its cool i mean its relaly common to be a "swinging door" but  there a people out there that use the name... to be "cool" And now that it's cool, you want to protect your status rather than have it diluted. Truly and utterly selfish of you, really. -- Posted by Zeuski at 11:07 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from you cry for help at 11:00 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from Zeuski at 10:55 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from quittinglamejob at 10:49 pm on July 13, 2008 I really don't think it's a fad, I think it's a result of looser social attitudes when it comes to sexuality. Search for news articles about bisexuality in women -- there's these studies they're talking about now that demonstrate that perhaps people really do fluctuate between straight and bi and gay... And I think that this is a cause for major confusion these days. Am I straight? Bi? Gay? or a bit of everything depending on the circumstances? And how does that shape my image of my own sexuality as a teenager? I probably have a very cut-and-dry upbringing when it comes to sexuality.     People are confused.    I know bisexuality exist but i also know there are people out there that are bisexual becasue its cool i mean its relaly common to be a "swinging door" but  there a people out there that use the name... to be "cool" And now that it's cool, you want to protect your status rather than have it diluted. Truly and utterly selfish of you, really. Ok STFU... its not fucking cool its not a fucking fad we're born this way... Yea i love being attracted to women yea i think theres people out there who truly are bisexual. Not conforming to a straight society, not behaving as everyone would like the consequences hurt, but you know what to those born this way we push on because we have pride. The hurt is  lessened. its stupid... really stupid... and very ignorant. -- Posted by you cry for help at 11:13 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from Zeuski at 11:07 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from you cry for help at 11:00 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from Zeuski at 10:55 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from quittinglamejob at 10:49 pm on July 13, 2008 I really don't think it's a fad, I think it's a result of looser social attitudes when it comes to sexuality. Search for news articles about bisexuality in women -- there's these studies they're talking about now that demonstrate that perhaps people really do fluctuate between straight and bi and gay... And I think that this is a cause for major confusion these days. Am I straight? Bi? Gay? or a bit of everything depending on the circumstances? And how does that shape my image of my own sexuality as a teenager? I probably have a very cut-and-dry upbringing when it comes to sexuality.        People are confused.     I know bisexuality exist but i also know there are people out there that are bisexual becasue its cool i mean its relaly common to be a "swinging door" but  there a people out there that use the name... to be "cool"    And now that it's cool, you want to protect your status rather than have it diluted. Truly and utterly selfish of you, really. Ok STFU... its not fucking cool its not a fucking fad we're born this way... Yea i love being attracted to women yea i think theres people out there who truly are bisexual. Not conforming to a straight society, not behaving as everyone would like the consequences hurt, but you know what to those born this way we push on because we have pride. The hurt is  lessened. its stupid... really stupid... and very ignorant. You're too wishy-washy with your stance to take seriously. First it's sad because people pretend to be bi to be cool and they are just lying fakers, now it's that being bi is such a horrible thing to be but all those bi people out there are too strong to be put down. What the hell is your problem here? Why are you so offended by immature people idolizing and emulating the label instead of fearing and hating it? -- Posted by quittinglamejob at 11:17 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from you cry for help at 11:13 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from Zeuski at 11:07 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from you cry for help at 11:00 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from Zeuski at 10:55 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from quittinglamejob at 10:49 pm on July 13, 2008 I really don't think it's a fad, I think it's a result of looser social attitudes when it comes to sexuality. Search for news articles about bisexuality in women -- there's these studies they're talking about now that demonstrate that perhaps people really do fluctuate between straight and bi and gay... And I think that this is a cause for major confusion these days. Am I straight? Bi? Gay? or a bit of everything depending on the circumstances? And how does that shape my image of my own sexuality as a teenager? I probably have a very cut-and-dry upbringing when it comes to sexuality.   People are confused.     I know bisexuality exist but i also know there are people out there that are bisexual becasue its cool i mean its relaly common to be a "swinging door" but there a people out there that use the name... to be "cool"   And now that it's cool, you want to protect your status rather than have it diluted. Truly and utterly selfish of you, really.    Ok STFU... its not fucking cool its not a fucking fad we're born this way... Yea i love being attracted to women yea i think theres people out there who truly are bisexual. Not conforming to a straight society, not behaving as everyone would like the consequences hurt, but you know what to those born this way we push on because we have pride. The hurt is lessened. its stupid... really stupid... and very ignorant. You're too wishy-washy with your stance to take seriously. First it's sad because people pretend to be bi to be cool and they are just lying fakers, now it's that being bi is such a horrible thing to be but all those bi people out there are too strong to be put down. What the hell is your problem here? Why are you so offended by immature people idolizing and emulating the label instead of fearing and hating it? I'd also like to add to that the fact that OH YOU JUST MAD CAUSE I'M STYLIN' ON YOU -- Posted by you cry for help at 11:18 pm on July 13, 2008 Quote: from quittinglamejob at 11:17 pm on July 13, 2008 I'd also like to add to that the fact that OH YOU JUST MAD CAUSE I'M STYLIN' ON YOU Lemme show you who the best by the hour -- Posted by victoria4951ct at 8:32 am on July 14, 2008 Let them be what they want. If they want to choose to be gay then so be it... I know a lot of people in my Sophomore year that wanted to be bi....I'm not going to stop them from doing so.. You can't stop people from doing what they want to do... -- Posted by kryptkeeper51 at 10:44 am on July 14, 2008 You have to understand, the vast majority of teenagers in today's society are ignorant, shallow and followers. They don't have individuality, they do things to be cool and fit it, even if it's something just plain stupid or hurtful to others. It's sad but true and you'll have to live with it and just try to be with the minority of people your own age who are not like them.