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-- Posted by locz thug mizzus at 4:16 pm on July 16, 2008

Yea, well me and Jai have been friends 10 years and she got married earlier this month (and I was NOT invited or told), then she had her baby this week (and I'm her baby's GODMOTHER), and I was not told or let in. Her friend called my mom's house and told her about it. I mean, we were such good friends, and I don't know if she just doesn't want me to be her friend or not...


-- Posted by La Motta at 4:17 pm on July 16, 2008

She should've told you if you're the childs godmother


-- Posted by Human Nature at 4:17 pm on July 16, 2008

That's horrible of her, talk to her about it


-- Posted by jc71corvette at 4:17 pm on July 16, 2008

Shes not your friend.

The last thing you should tell her is thanks for letting me know. Just say that. She'd get the idea


-- Posted by dreamweaver at 4:18 pm on July 16, 2008

Just sounds like she has had a lot on her mind lately. Call her up and see what she says, but in all honesty, she may have just had a lot on her mind (c'mon, a wedding AND having a baby?!).

It does take 2 people to get a friendship going. Have you've staying in contact with her as well?


-- Posted by Bryannax3 at 4:18 pm on July 16, 2008

thats crazy.. i would just explain to her how you feel and ask her whats going on


-- Posted by pujolsfan at 4:19 pm on July 16, 2008

thats odd. I think i would have invited my kids godmother to my wedding. idk, dont worry too much about it. mabey she thought she invited you or your invitation got lost


-- Posted by Jasonzlpa at 4:22 pm on July 16, 2008

Well, I'm sure she still wants you to be friends, I mean, what kind of person would make someone they didn't want to be friends w/ their kids godmother?  Huh?  Maybe she just has a lot on her mind, I mean, a wedding and a child in the same month?  Enough to put stress on anybody, if you ask me.  Besides, during the birth, it's not like she could've paused everything and said 'Hey, c'mon already!'.  You just need to sit down with her and explain how you feel, and see what's going on.


-- Posted by The Drunken Clam at 4:26 pm on July 16, 2008

She sounds like a bitch


-- Posted by greenskittles at 4:28 pm on July 16, 2008

you wanted to be in the delivery room with her?


-- Posted by AndWhenHeFalleth at 4:30 pm on July 16, 2008

Did she have a real wedding or did they do the court house thing?


-- Posted by chinaman at 4:31 pm on July 16, 2008

yeah...thats fucked up how she wouldnt tell u... justfugit....


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