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-- Posted by Wolferz at 6:58 pm on July 21, 2008

OK men, I have a question as a female.

If a girl is suddenly shown a lot of attention by other guys (ex: seen with a guy, a guy is obviously showing off/flirting with her in public)...then does that make the girl automatically more desirable?

Would you at least take a closer look at her? To think something like "Oh wow, well if that dude is into her, she must have sometihng going for her there..."


-- Posted by Hater 69 at 6:58 pm on July 21, 2008

im not a guy but even i can answer that..the answer is yes.


-- Posted by neverjeeps at 6:58 pm on July 21, 2008

i guess, but not really


-- Posted by FingerSub at 6:59 pm on July 21, 2008

not for me


-- Posted by Khadgar at 6:59 pm on July 21, 2008

Not necessarily, but I suppose it might influence first impressions.


-- Posted by Hyacinth at 7:00 pm on July 21, 2008

No, not really. That kind of mentality is actually really onlu towards women and there perception of men. If a woman sees a man with lots of women, she thinks he is worth something, and will prefer him to a man with no women after him. Even if the women leave him and he is by himself women will still prefer him, because she knows there are others after him.


-- Posted by xwhylovewhyhatex at 7:02 pm on July 21, 2008

Not really.


-- Posted by branflakes at 7:03 pm on July 21, 2008

Quote: from Hater 69 at 9:58 pm on July 21, 2008


im not a guy but even i can answer that..the answer is yes.

aaaaaaand you'd be completely wrong.


-- Posted by Evolutionism at 7:07 pm on July 21, 2008

Not necessarily. I'd more likely think something like "Oh, that jerk is in to her and she's not pushing him away?" *keeps distance*


-- Posted by Zdrav at 10:07 pm on July 21, 2008

It can certainly "wake a guy up", but unless there's some latent attraction, I think no. Personally, I prefer the girls that all the dumbasses seem to overlook for some strange reason.


-- Posted by californiaboy at 1:12 am on July 22, 2008

Of course it does. It will at least make me take a second look. It certainly won't make an ugly girl appear hot, but it could make their stock rise a little bit. It's definitely a subconscious thing though, that's why almost everyone on here will say no.


-- Posted by nik1 at 4:38 am on July 23, 2008

I am too independent and self controlled for it.  I don't need or care what other guys see in a girl.  It's what I think, not them.


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