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-- Posted by Anonymous at 9:52 am on July 23, 2008

Just 40 minutes ago I was in the library cramming for exams.  I'm taking summer classes at my college and there was this girl 4 tables across staring at me.  So I walked over to her and said this:

"Hi, I saw you looking over at me in this library. I thought you might need a study break!"

We talked for 5 minutes before I exited out and said "Aight I gotta get back to cramming now.  Gonna go before my books get too jealous of us."  I did end up getting her number.

Okay, I know that girls find confidence sexy.  But sometimes I'm not sure if I'm TOO bold or gusty for my own good.  I don't want to come across as cocky or anything.  So how confident should a guy really be?  Would all girls be cool with what I just did?


-- Posted by DCW69 at 9:53 am on July 23, 2008

What the fuck kind of pick up lines are those?


-- Posted by DemolitionxXxLover at 9:54 am on July 23, 2008

That seems fine.


-- Posted by Dylan6405 at 9:54 am on July 23, 2008

wow you gonna get you sum pussay! lol


-- Posted by paperskyx at 9:54 am on July 23, 2008

Just don't ever use stupid lines like "Was your daddy a baker by any chance? Cuz you hae such nice buns." or etc. Those are lame.


-- Posted by dReier at 9:54 am on July 23, 2008

good job


-- Posted by Potterishdancer at 9:54 am on July 23, 2008

not every girl. ur lucky it worked on that one! u have confidence and thats good. but some girls wont fall for lines like that. it depends on the type of girl u approach. u did well. just dont make that a habit.


-- Posted by MissCherry at 9:54 am on July 23, 2008

I don't think that was overly confident at all. I think it was just alright. Once, I met a guy when we were hanging out with our friends.. and he took it way too far because he was constantly asking me what I thought about his looks and telling me loads of girls go after him. T.T ugh


-- Posted by knekay at 9:54 am on July 23, 2008

i would be cool with it. i like when guys show confidence like that and actually want to have a conversation rather than staring and  callin me "hott or sexy " that is so played and annoying .


-- Posted by cherrys77 at 9:55 am on July 23, 2008

I think you did it perfectly.  


-- Posted by JuggaletteBaby at 9:56 am on July 23, 2008

Quote: from cherrys77 at 9:55 am on July 23, 2008


I think you did it perfectly.  

this.


-- Posted by Ryoichiro at 9:58 am on July 23, 2008

You have alot more guts then i do.


-- Posted by Xhiddenartist17X at 9:58 am on July 23, 2008

I dunno because that could come off as bing majorly cocky to some girls. I guess it depends on how you said it.


-- Posted by melodramatic at 9:59 am on July 23, 2008

That was a pretty good way to ask a girl out. As long as you don't blatantly stare or try to hit on her in a really rude way, Then it's fine. It's good that you are worrying about being too aggressive, because then you will be subconsciously limiting yourself.


-- Posted by morrisonsMYmuse at 11:55 am on July 23, 2008

that's pretty good.
it wasn't overly cocky or anything. maybe a little corny, but corny is better than cocky. lol.
you were fine.


-- Posted by cptg at 9:04 pm on July 23, 2008

i kinda wish more guys were gutsy like that, but i would've stuck with "I thought you might need a study break!" not the oh you were looking part...


-- Posted by somelikeitred at 4:04 am on July 24, 2008

Well she gave you her number, so you did it right.


-- Posted by mvp2308 at 10:43 am on July 24, 2008

yo that was perfect the ladies at my school say im too aggresive cuz i have confidence and they like chilled back dudes but be aggresive man we need more girls to be aggressive cuz they believe in this stupid sayin the boys so always go up to the girl and that is not true


-- Posted by technole at 10:51 pm on July 24, 2008

Next time before you leave and cut to the chase say: "so are you available for checking out?"


-- Posted by nik1 at 2:47 pm on July 27, 2008

Some girls would and some won't.


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