-- Posted by Anonymous at 12:22 pm on July 23, 2008 This is the first time I've talked to someone on AIM that I don't know in real life, so that's why I'm asking because I already feel really weird haha. Anyways, I was on some college admission forums for med school and this girl gave out her sn. She had a few pics in her profile and she is hott. Anyways, I IM'd her to ask her about applying to med school and stuff. We started talking and she got curious and asked me what I look like. Well, I sent her my facebook link and after that she got really flirty for the rest of our convo. 3 Days later, she signs onto aim. I don't know if I should IM her just to talk for fun? We havent talked since then and I feel kinda weird if I were to IM her out of nowhere. Would she think I'm weird if I did? What do you all think? -- Posted by skittybaby at 12:23 pm on July 23, 2008 Just talk to her as if she was one of your normal friends -- Posted by Fouad at 12:23 pm on July 23, 2008 nah im her its no big deal i always do it with random girls -- Posted by aka anton at 12:23 pm on July 23, 2008 nope, youre over thinking it like most of us guys do -- Posted by PotPom at 12:23 pm on July 23, 2008 she probly will. but thats not reason to not do it. 99% of the time you will fail but its that1% that will make it worth it. good luck. -- Posted by morrisonsMYmuse at 12:24 pm on July 23, 2008 lol... just say hi. it's not wierd! -- Posted by igotaquestion at 12:24 pm on July 23, 2008 IM her it sould be fun -- Posted by butterflyboy at 12:24 pm on July 23, 2008 go for it and talk to her -- Posted by k1Lka at 12:24 pm on July 23, 2008 ,aybe she wantd yur cock n balls, who knows -- Posted by melodramatic at 12:24 pm on July 23, 2008 No big deal. Just don't say anything nasty or offer to meet up with her. Haha. -- Posted by Queen Victoria II at 12:25 pm on July 23, 2008 Just IM her.  It won't hurt unless you are an Internet predator. -- Posted by hateitandloveit at 12:25 pm on July 23, 2008 just do it -- Posted by brook at 12:31 pm on July 23, 2008 talk to her -- Posted by maribabyy at 7:21 pm on July 23, 2008 i dont think it would be weird..do it! :] -- Posted by Zdrav at 7:23 pm on July 23, 2008 Sounds weird. One time, a girl asked if she could Facebook friend me because she found me interesting at a discussion forum. Occasionally, she comments on my photos and leaves wall messages. At first, it was flattering, but now, it's a little creepy. What, you can't chat up hot girls in real life? She's going to think that you're obsessive and/or gutless for being an online pick-up artist. -- Posted by Evolutionism at 8:28 pm on July 23, 2008 Quote: from aka anton at 12:23 pm on July 23, 2008 nope, youre over thinking it like most of us guys do Yup, you're over-thinking it. -- Posted by somelikeitred at 4:07 am on July 24, 2008 Eh. It's better to just try and meet up in person....IRL stuff is way better than some AIM convo. -- Posted by JeremyM at 6:34 am on July 24, 2008 Quote: from fouad at 3:23 pm on July 23, 2008 nah im her its no big deal i always do it with random girls Smooth. To the OP: Just IM her, be like "Hey what's up?" Depending on the response you get, continue or bail.