-- Posted by byebyebeautyful at 12:25 am on July 24, 2008 ok well i have a friend/lover (guy A) but hes more a friend than lover.. and a soon to be boyfriend because he means alot to me guy (guy T)... anyways, i really like guy T alot and i see it going to something serious. my problem is, i really value my friendship with guy A, though i remember he once told me that if we became platonic friends he wouldnt be able to handle it and would have to cut off communication with me... i dont want to cheat on guy T at all but i also dont want to lose the friendship of guy A either, ( its becoming a really nice friendship, were becoming less and less lovers and more and more friends) anyone know what i can do without losing one or the other? -- Posted by HXC at 12:27 am on July 24, 2008 three way. -- Posted by shutter bugs at 12:28 am on July 24, 2008 so, if you want to just be friends with your lover he wont talk to you ever again? guy sounds like an asshole, tell him how you feel if he cares about you he should let you go and just be friends