-- Posted by victoria4951ct at 12:08 am on July 25, 2008 I was curious to know what other peoples opinions were on this subject. Do you think porn is a form of adultery? Me and my husband are both 20. I occasionally watch porn from time to time. Since he's away I've been watching it even more. So my question is... Do you think porn is committing adultery? I know you actually have to sleep with someone to say it's adultery but from the Christan's point of view it's a little different. I've been told that if you have thoughts about sleeping with another person then you are committing it... -- Posted by HXC at 12:09 am on July 25, 2008 no. -- Posted by UltimaTaz at 12:09 am on July 25, 2008 Watching isn't a crime. -- Posted by HannahBEE at 12:09 am on July 25, 2008 No, not in my opinion. Lust, yes. Adultery, no -- Posted by lucyy at 12:09 am on July 25, 2008 i would have to say no -- Posted by Aratal at 12:09 am on July 25, 2008 A while ago I would have said yes. But no, it's not adultery. -- Posted by rawrr at 12:10 am on July 25, 2008 well when i watch porn i dont think of actually having sex with them... i think about the person im with/have feelings for as that person... werid but it makes ense sto tme. -- Posted by lovemetwicetoday at 12:10 am on July 25, 2008 Definitely not -- Posted by lonewolf03 at 12:10 am on July 25, 2008 I guess it depends on how your partner feels about it. I don't mind if my boyfriend watches and/or masturbates to porn, and he doesn't mind me doing it either, so we are in agreement. However, if I was with someone who was against that, I wouldn't use it to masturbate, I would use my mind, just like I used to in my younger days. -- Posted by Bittersweetoxox at 12:10 am on July 25, 2008 No. -- Posted by Solitude at 12:11 am on July 25, 2008 ask the pope -- Posted by SpM at 12:12 am on July 25, 2008 From a Christian perspective, yes (or at least it is comparable to it). But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Matthew 5:28 -- Posted by victoria4951ct at 12:12 am on July 25, 2008 Quote: from solitude at 3:11 am on July 25, 2008 ask the pope I'll get on that -- Posted by Missyjane at 12:12 am on July 25, 2008 nah...although if it makes him uncomfortable maybe. It's between you and your partner -- Posted by psychotickid666 at 12:13 am on July 25, 2008 Quote: from solitude at 3:11 am on July 25, 2008 ask the pope lol what does it matter, the vatican has the worlds largest porno collection. they have atleast one copy of any form of literature ever distributed -- Posted by Solitude at 12:20 am on July 25, 2008 Quote: from psychotickid666 at 12:13 am on July 25, 2008 Quote: from solitude at 3:11 am on July 25, 2008 ask the pope lol what does it matter, the vatican has the worlds largest porno collection. they have atleast one copy of any form of literature ever distributed the pope is masturbating to this topic right now -- Posted by Tuski at 12:21 am on July 25, 2008 Yes, you are going to hell -- Posted by PooksPooks at 12:21 am on July 25, 2008 well i am christian but i dont believe in the bible. (it's comlicated lol) so my opinion on this is NOT derived from the bible. it is from my own  reasoning and such i do think it's adultry. i believe if u love someone that your mind will be with that one person completely. i've been hurt recentally because of this. he claims he loves me but he allowed his eyes to carry away from me and onto someone else. it was very hurtful. i know he loves me and all, but something is missing, i believe. something that maybe time will be able to fix -- Posted by madrascal32 at 12:28 am on July 25, 2008 Quote: from UltimaTaz at 12:09 am on July 25, 2008 Watching isn't a crime. yes it is,for ppl who is 17 and younger -- Posted by UltimaTaz at 12:28 am on July 25, 2008 Quote: from madrascal32 at 3:28 am on July 25, 2008 Quote: from UltimaTaz at 12:09 am on July 25, 2008 Watching isn't a crime. yes it is,for ppl who is 17 and younger Hm..Well, take me to jail :P -- Posted by 636lover at 4:22 pm on July 25, 2008 I watch porn sometimes and it's great for getting you both hot when u watch it together so normally i'd say NO. But my last bf watched it and i don't know what bothered me more about it, the fact that he was watching it or WHERE he was watching it, You see, one day i came home from work and noticed my computer was running slow and that everytime i tried to open windows media player a little porn movie would come on and it wasn't anything i had been watching. So after this happened 3 times i finally asked him if he knew what was going on. He sheepishly explained that he had been watching it while i was at work. Now i'm not sure if i was pissed b/c he was watching it alone (maybe wishing he had those girls instead of me) or b/c he was watching it on MY computer!!!! Yeah! That's like borrowing your wife's phone so you can call your mistress. -- Posted by Aratal at 5:06 pm on July 25, 2008 Quote: from 636lover at 4:22 pm on July 25, 2008 Now i'm not sure if i was pissed b/c he was watching it alone (maybe wishing he had those girls instead of me) or b/c he was watching it on MY computer!!!! Yeah! That's like borrowing your wife's phone so you can call your mistress. I know how you feel about this, but he should at least be watching it on his computer. Or does he have one? Either way...   -- Posted by ultima171 at 9:05 pm on July 25, 2008 i would say no, you can't stop ur mind from wandering, you jsut can;t cuz if you tell urself to not think about it, ur doing it anyway -- Posted by fran09 at 2:27 am on July 29, 2008 It depends if your partner has a problem with it, since they are masturbating to someone else it can hurt the other person, and obviously if they don't agree with the industry that it can be mad worse. However if they have no problem with it, then there is no problem created between the people. Either way is pretty normal and there is nothing wrong with both views.