-- Posted by Anonymous at 4:25 pm on July 26, 2008 so i've know this girl for about a year now and we've been pretty close. there were a couple of times when we got drunk and we flirted with each other. after one incident, we had a little "fling" for like 2 weeks, but then she said it wouldn't work out at the time. i still had/have a crush on her and i'm not really sure about her feelings towards me. then, i saw her the other day, but she was with another guy. i guess they're like in the "dating" stage right now where they aren't really bf/gf. but they were hugging and holding hands and stuff. now, i was confused because at the same time, she would come over to me and want me to hold her hand and she was kissing me on the neck and stuff. is it too late for me to win her over or should i let her go or what? -- Posted by darKStorm at 4:42 pm on July 26, 2008 She sounds like a whore lol Dont hurt the other guy though by trying to win her. Its unfair, and theres nothing worse, imagine yourself if you were in a relationship and your gf dumped you for someone else. -- Posted by Eriin136 at 4:44 pm on July 26, 2008 try and find out for sure if they are in a relationship if they are just wait for her to like you again and if they arent ask her out -- Posted by Uruz 7 at 1:14 am on July 28, 2008 You'd better watch your back . . Either way, the information your providing is probably insufficient to actually make a conclusion. Perhaps its nothing, perhaps its more, or like said, perhaps shes a ~toot~. For starters though, affection is not a prize for you to win. Competition is certainly the most foolish way towards the issue. Its her decision though, and leave it to her to decide . . . Try not to let it bother you. From what I can tell, I don't really seem to respect this person much. -- Posted by somelikeitred at 6:58 am on July 28, 2008 just try and move on and find someone else. -- Posted by QisQ at 6:42 pm on July 28, 2008 So you wanna get a girl who is all up on another guy? Think this one out.