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-- Posted by sam mimi at 8:55 am on July 27, 2008


-- Posted by skittybaby at 8:55 am on July 27, 2008

If your catholic


-- Posted by reev at 8:55 am on July 27, 2008

you don't have to.


-- Posted by aGIRLunknown at 8:55 am on July 27, 2008

no


-- Posted by uwastedmyheart at 8:55 am on July 27, 2008

Yes. You must. Your vajaja doesn't open until then! DUH!


-- Posted by Smorz at 8:55 am on July 27, 2008

Only if you believe in it.


-- Posted by mackenzie13 at 8:56 am on July 27, 2008

not legally, but it's a "sin" if ur religous


-- Posted by nyc93 at 8:56 am on July 27, 2008

you sound like your 12, are you?


-- Posted by Dumbledor123 at 8:56 am on July 27, 2008

Nope, it's all your personal decision.


-- Posted by greatescape at 8:56 am on July 27, 2008

Its a free country


-- Posted by davidbeaver at 8:56 am on July 27, 2008

no not if you done got to cherch and stuff


-- Posted by bluedancingdog at 8:57 am on July 27, 2008

my religion teacher said you can have sex before your married, which i found really weird, but ok..


-- Posted by aGIRLunknown at 8:57 am on July 27, 2008

Quote: from skittybaby at 11:55 am on July 27, 2008


If your catholic

NOT true. I am a studied Catholic and I had sex before Marriage


-- Posted by po3tically inclin3d at 8:58 am on July 27, 2008

So they say... but who's really gonna wait until then?


-- Posted by Themakingofagod at 8:58 am on July 27, 2008

You don't have to.  It depends on your religion and your personal beliefs.  If you are a follower of a religion that says you are not to have sex before marriage and you believe it, then do it, but in no way are you compelled to or forced to by any means to wait until marriage.


-- Posted by lilakforte at 8:58 am on July 27, 2008

I probably will, but you don't HAVE to, some people just choose not to until marriage or they can't because of cultural and/or religious beliefs.


-- Posted by aGIRLunknown at 8:58 am on July 27, 2008

Quote: from mackenzie13 at 11:56 am on July 27, 2008


not legally, but it's a "sin" if ur religous

Umm... Legally if she wanted to before marriage yes she can. NO state says u have to be a VIRGIN in order to get married


-- Posted by Permious at 9:00 am on July 27, 2008

I'm muslim, unmarried and sexually active.

Many of the major religions consider pre-marital sex a sin but ultimately you have free will and you can choose to do sinful things.


-- Posted by igotaquestion at 9:05 am on July 27, 2008

I wouldn't


-- Posted by HuffleHaire at 9:08 am on July 27, 2008

You can roll on your own wheels.


-- Posted by Al Legator at 9:12 am on July 27, 2008

You don't ahve to wait. There is a lot to be said for it, or at the very least, for limited sexual partners before committing to that on eperson who is your (hopefully) life-long partner/support/helper/lover.

There are physical and emotional prices to be paid when indulging in instant-gratification recreational sex. I know that's not what a lot of peopel want to hear and I wouldn't ahve listened a long time ago either but I've got a wider perspective now.

Religion may be an influence but religion generally is based on hundreds or thousands of years of people's expereiences-good and bad.Those who think religion is just a big "NOT To DO" list, are ignorant of the debates and reasoning and expereience behind dogma with sexual contexts.In the end, it comes down to your personal philosopies. ANd your willingness or ability to deal with consequences, good and bad, of sex.


-- Posted by xcutioners at 9:13 am on July 27, 2008

Depends on religion.

I was "no sex before marriage" before I met my girlfriend (now ex)


-- Posted by unwantedtears xo at 9:17 am on July 27, 2008

It depends on religion.. i would say wait till then but then i would be a hipacrit.


-- Posted by TheAntiBarbie at 9:34 am on July 27, 2008

No, you don't have to wait.


-- Posted by candygirl9031 at 1:17 pm on July 27, 2008

i think you should. plus i think that its so much better if you're married anyways. you dont have to have any worries like stds or if you're pregnant or anything like that


-- Posted by Addicted 2 Candy at 1:38 pm on July 27, 2008

i dont think so. i think it should matter on how u and ur partner feel bout one another


-- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 3:16 pm on July 27, 2008

Only if you want to. No one can tell you this but yourself.


-- Posted by babygurl 2008 at 4:47 pm on July 27, 2008

Yes you do, but I'm not and I'm not to proud of it., Still it depends what you believe in I mean in most religions you have to wait till you married to have sex


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