Pages: 1 2  Next -- Posted by xcutioners at 12:21 pm on July 27, 2008 I'm 19 and only been in one serious relationship. The girl of one year four months left me because she said "she had no feelings for me anymore" and I was shocked. Yes, my life was full of shit at that time cause it was a week prior to college finals. Well, I began to make a list of characteristic traits of a girl I'd want to be with...   Obviously, many will say "you have really high standards" but I don't think it is =/ The traits I look for a girl is vegetarian, virgin (nonvirgin if only not very experienced), drink socially, non-drug abusers, non-smokers, healthy diet,and open. Sometimes I wonder why I suck.. I didn't cheat on my ex...   any ideas?   -- Posted by LightThisCity at 12:22 pm on July 27, 2008 boring? -- Posted by skittybaby at 12:22 pm on July 27, 2008 Guess not -- Posted by hateitandloveit at 12:22 pm on July 27, 2008 That doesn't sound THAT strict. -- Posted by hateitandloveit at 12:23 pm on July 27, 2008 Quote: from LightThisCity at 3:22 pm on July 27, 2008 boring? LIEK ME LOLZ. -- Posted by Natsy at 12:23 pm on July 27, 2008 well I'm all of the above... but i dunno why she said what, maybe you have tiny hands or are really boring to talk to or something... -- Posted by Frubeling at 12:23 pm on July 27, 2008 Sounds.... fun. dull actually, vegetarian, she won't be able to give you a BJ -- Posted by uwastedmyheart at 12:23 pm on July 27, 2008 Me: Vegetarian. Yes. Virgin. No. Drink. Yes. Non-drug abuser. ....uh Non - smoker. ....uh Open. Sure. Dating. Anti. -- Posted by xcutioners at 12:24 pm on July 27, 2008 It's not I'm boring... I prioritize myself with college and then relationships... -- Posted by Justinc08 at 12:24 pm on July 27, 2008 That doesn't sound strict at all. Maybe just the vegetarian thing. -- Posted by PrEeTyGiRlKrYz at 12:24 pm on July 27, 2008 I think you sound awesome, why arent there more guys like you in my city! -- Posted by xcutioners at 12:24 pm on July 27, 2008 I've also made plans for the next year or so for the future... -- Posted by xcutioners at 12:25 pm on July 27, 2008 Quote: from Justinc08 at 4:24 am on July 28, 2008 That doesn't sound strict at all. Maybe just the vegetarian thing. I grew up as a vegetarian -- Posted by futurehardhed jarhed at 12:26 pm on July 27, 2008 don't forget you need to say how fit she is -- Posted by xcutioners at 12:26 pm on July 27, 2008 Quote: from PrEeTyGiRlKrYz at 4:24 am on July 28, 2008 I think you sound awesome, why arent there more guys like you in my city! I'm one state below you... actually, my university is 1-2hrs from Cali-Oregon border -- Posted by xcutioners at 12:28 pm on July 27, 2008 Quote: from futurehardhed jarhed at 4:26 am on July 28, 2008 don't forget you need to say how fit she is Oh definitely xD Yeh... I'm also looking at Army for future career -- Posted by Amazingness99 at 12:31 pm on July 27, 2008 I'm actually all of those except vegetarian....but it does seem like a tall order. Maybe you should try and get to know the girl for herself before worrying about her lifestyles. -- Posted by HelHound at 12:33 pm on July 27, 2008 Vegetarian. No Virgin. Yeah Drink. No Non-drug abuser. Iv never done drugs Non - smoker. Never smoked Open. Sure. Dating. I could try.  Not that it matters. Im five years younger then you.  But, maybe you should try just chillin with friends more often. -- Posted by ChandraMoon at 12:34 pm on July 27, 2008 Maybe because you make lists of traits you want. That's kind of douchy. -- Posted by xcutioners at 12:40 pm on July 27, 2008 Quote: from ChandraMoon at 4:34 am on July 28, 2008 Maybe because you make lists of traits you want. That's kind of douchy. Everyone has their lists of traits I'm pretty sure you do too.. would you date a guy whose broke due to drug abuse and alcohol addiction? -- Posted by branflakes at 1:15 pm on July 27, 2008 there are, you're just not looking nearly hard enough -- Posted by xcutioners at 2:07 pm on July 27, 2008 Quote: from branflakes at 5:15 am on July 28, 2008 there are, you're just not looking nearly hard enough Really?? -- Posted by daveythewavey19 at 4:03 pm on July 27, 2008 Stop BAWWWING you faggot; she probably left you because she found someone new who was either A) more interesting B) hotter  C) had money or D) all of the above -- Posted by xcutioners at 4:42 pm on July 27, 2008 Quote: from daveythewavey19 at 8:03 am on July 28, 2008 Stop BAWWWING you faggot; she probably left you because she found someone new who was either A) more interesting B) hotter  C) had money or D) all of the above Way to bash the OP that's not very helpful. -- Posted by sakurashina at 11:05 pm on July 27, 2008 Seriously, you're in COLLEGE. You shouldn't be worrying about having a solid relationship with someone. It's your time to explore and have some fun. BTW, your requirements aren't very strict. -- Posted by villalord at 4:19 am on July 28, 2008 just be open to any chicks that come your way it don't matter if shes a vegi or wot not its how u get on with er dont it -- Posted by somelikeitred at 6:56 am on July 28, 2008 I don't have anything that you would look for in a girl. Except for the drug abusers, non-smokers, healthy diet thing...I don't do drugs, don't smoke and I'm healthy. -- Posted by xcutioners at 10:54 am on July 28, 2008 Thanks ppl -- Posted by nik1 at 12:56 pm on July 28, 2008 I think all your requirements are realistic except the vegetarian part.  This reduces your chances dramatically in my opinion.  Consider, "Open to vegetarian diet." I would also make sure that there aren't any double standards in your requirements. Not cheating is an important part of a relationship but that alone will not hold it together.  You can be an abusive, controlling jerk and be faithful. -- Posted by xcutioners at 7:19 pm on July 28, 2008 Quote: from nik1 at 4:56 am on July 29, 2008 I think all your requirements are realistic except the vegetarian part.  This reduces your chances dramatically in my opinion.  Consider, "Open to vegetarian diet." I would also make sure that there aren't any double standards in your requirements. Not cheating is an important part of a relationship but that alone will not hold it together.  You can be an abusive, controlling jerk and be faithful. That's true Pages: 1 2  Next