-- Posted by Anonymous at 5:25 am on July 28, 2008 My boyfriend and I are very close. We live together, but with my hours, we don't see each other that much. It sorta feels like we're drifting apart. Well, he was saying yesterday that he wanted to spend more time with a guy a work. He was saying to the movies and out for a drink. Now, I find this weird cause they already spend 50 hours together a week. But also because my boyfriend doesn't drink. I'm starting to feel that he is trying to impress this guy. There was rumours a couple years back that my boyfriend was gay, literally. So, that's why it worries me. So, do you think it's weird he wants to spend so much more time with him? -- Posted by Taylor636Baker at 5:26 am on July 28, 2008 A little -- Posted by Hoop chic08 at 5:27 am on July 28, 2008 Why don't you just ask him and see how he reacts. -- Posted by SophFairy at 5:27 am on July 28, 2008 Maybe. -- Posted by shawn2 at 5:29 am on July 28, 2008 All signs point to that.... I don't think they are rumors... -- Posted by MiNNiCK at 5:29 am on July 28, 2008 There could be multiple reasons he's hanging out with him. Obviously one of them is because he's lonely without you. But don't jump to conclusions. I can see your concern, but just because he goes drinking with him could mean he's just going to hang with him at the bar, not to actually partake in drinking. People do like to have the company of others. And rumors are just rumors. Unless you've noticed yourself that he's seeming gay, I wouldn't take it that seriously. -- Posted by skittybaby at 5:31 am on July 28, 2008 Kinda.. -- Posted by Anonymous at 5:31 am on July 28, 2008 Quote: from Hoop chic08 at 5:27 am on July 28, 2008 Why don't you just ask him and see how he reacts. I did. He had a bit of smile, but started yelling. "Don't be so riduclous'. I think he is kidding himself. His parents would disown him if he was gay. -- Posted by Ifodi at 5:33 am on July 28, 2008 If he's gay.. He's gay. Tell him to be totally straight with you. Maybe you should ask if you could go along, if hes a gd friend with this guy you should get to meet him.. -- Posted by Anonymous at 5:41 am on July 28, 2008 Quote: from Ifodi at 5:33 am on July 28, 2008 If he's gay.. He's gay. Tell him to be totally straight with you. Maybe you should ask if you could go along, if hes a gd friend with this guy you should get to meet him.. He would never be straight about it. His family is totally against being gay. -- Posted by AnnaMinator at 5:43 am on July 28, 2008 mhmmmmm -- Posted by La Motta at 5:50 am on July 28, 2008 Maybe it's an excuse to get further away from you? -- Posted by MaryLin at 5:52 am on July 28, 2008 Ask him if he's gay. It smells funny. -- Posted by Annessa at 6:20 am on July 28, 2008 Not really because this might be a way to make you want to spend more time with him because he is lonely.