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-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:20 am on July 28, 2008

Ok, so when me and my gf have sex she likes saying no, stop, etc. I'll ask if she wants to continue even if she says no. She likes the sex to be a simulated rape, but I don't know if I should go along with it.

Girls, what's your opinion?


-- Posted by skittybaby at 11:21 am on July 28, 2008

Maybe she likes S&M


-- Posted by pumpkin475 at 11:21 am on July 28, 2008

ewww that doesn't sound healthy

if it makes u uncomfortable, talk to her about it. see what yall can work out


-- Posted by rawr41507 at 11:22 am on July 28, 2008

i think u need to tlk to her bout that. =/


-- Posted by bloodhunter at 11:22 am on July 28, 2008

Not everyone likes the same thing.


-- Posted by Madison23 at 11:22 am on July 28, 2008

Hmmm, role playing is good, but if your not comfortable tell her. Sounds like its putting you in a an akward position and sex shouldnt be that way.


-- Posted by LightThisCity at 11:22 am on July 28, 2008

its just role play


-- Posted by 2ndbreakfast79 at 11:23 am on July 28, 2008

some girls like a simulated rap. it's best in those types of situations or anything that's new to you or your partner to have a safe word that either of you can say if you really do want to stop. that way, she can still say "no" so as not to break the mood, but you'll know that she doesn't really mean it. true story, but my ex and i used the word "seahorse" if one of us was uncomfortable with anything.  lol.


-- Posted by basketballbabe15 at 11:29 am on July 28, 2008

that does sound uncomfortable


-- Posted by KendallMoc at 11:31 am on July 28, 2008

Awkward..


-- Posted by hazeleyedangel at 11:32 am on July 28, 2008

If she likes it like that go along with it.
The only downside is that if she ever actually doesn't want to have sex, then you wouldn't know the difference.


-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:36 am on July 28, 2008

Quote: from HazelEyedAngel at 2:32 pm on July 28, 2008


If she likes it like that go along with it.
The only downside is that if she ever actually doesn't want to have sex, then you wouldn't know the difference.

Yeah, that's the biggest thing though..cause I really don't mind doing it though, but I don't want to force her to have sex either.


-- Posted by jennay at 12:37 pm on July 28, 2008

it would be confusing. like what would she say if she really wanted to stop?


-- Posted by Anonymous at 1:16 pm on July 28, 2008

Quote: from jennay at 3:37 pm on July 28, 2008


it would be confusing. like what would she say if she really wanted to stop?

I asked that. She said if she really didn't want to, she wouldn't even let me take off her pants.


-- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 2:01 pm on July 28, 2008

That is not normal...:S


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