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-- Posted by cutieelise at 12:01 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

i am so ugly its making me so depressed.everytime i am out with my friends clubbing my m8s always egt the attestion from guys and no guys come upto me.


-- Posted by revived5656 at 12:02 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

hang out with uglyer ppl it works


-- Posted by oridniv at 12:02 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

awww i have the same experience but meh....even pretty ppl arent liked by everyone and everyone is liked by someone


-- Posted by fizzle123 at 12:02 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

Boohoohooo stop seeking for attention and learn to love yourself probably the reason you have no guys come up to you is because you think youre ugly.
if you love yourself then you will be approachable


-- Posted by ronda at 12:02 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

everyone gets someone eventually...


-- Posted by sparkle2014 at 12:02 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

r ur parents divorced???


-- Posted by aka anton at 12:03 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

maybe you arent fun or sexy enough because you are thinking like this


-- Posted by Narfle the Garthok at 12:03 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

Quote: from revived5656 at 12:02 pm on Aug. 5, 2008


hang out with uglyer ppl it works

QFT


-- Posted by HangEmHigh at 12:03 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

I know exactly how you feel about guys not coming up to you... and you're probably not. The guys who are only going up to your mates probably only go for waht they call ''looks'' and you don't want someone like that. You want someone who loves you no matter what you look like, so just don't be too depressed cause you'll find someone.


-- Posted by stargazer1 at 12:03 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

Quote: from revived5656 at 12:02 pm on Aug. 5, 2008


hang out with uglyer ppl it works
don't listen to this idiot. i believe your a very pretty person. Dont put yourself down. Love yourself and things like that ill be your friend.


-- Posted by cutieelise at 12:05 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

i cant help that put myself down,i just feel like i will never get a bf,i dunno how to make myself think diffently of myself


-- Posted by Lepperking at 12:05 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

post some pics so livewire can judge you


-- Posted by Lothar1 at 12:05 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

try to think more postivie that would help alot


-- Posted by cutieelise at 12:07 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

iv tryed to think positive it only works for a little while than i just get depressed again


-- Posted by Favole at 12:09 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

that doesn't mean your ugly
be positive


-- Posted by DirtyConspiracy at 12:09 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

It's the same for me. I suppose you just have to be more confident?


-- Posted by stargazer1 at 12:10 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

it sounds like you dont try hard enough.


-- Posted by Frubeling at 12:14 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

Doesn't make you ugly, just not what those guys are looking for


-- Posted by Trash at 12:15 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

Quote: from revived5656 at 12:02 pm on Aug. 5, 2008


hang out with uglyer ppl it works

This actually does work


-- Posted by Solitude at 4:05 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

Why do you say you're ugly in the first place? Why do you have this pessimistic state of mind? I can't really determine whether you are ugly or not because I don't really care about how people look. It really doesn't matter to me much. You can't say you're ugly, and no one else should. It's really a matter of an opinion, and everyone is going to say something different. Some will say you are indeed ugly and others will say that you look as pretty as a n angel. You should not really care if someone calls you ugly. It's their opinion and you don't have to agree with them. If they say you're ugly, just don't care about what they say. You don't have to believe everything they tell you. You should not take their remarks seriously at all. Don't let people's comments get to you. Who cares what they say?! If they only like you because of the way you look, then they're not good friends at all because some day we all will grow old and stop being young and beautiful. It's better if they don't pick you because of the way you look, that  way you know that they are not really good people and that they only care about the looks. All of them get attention from guys who only want a pretty face, and all. They get picked because of the way they look not because of who they are. If someone doesn't pick then so what?! They couldn't appreciate the way you are, and the way you act, they only acted upon what they saw without bothering to get to know the person better.

Everyone will lose their beauty over time, as they grow old, but true friendship and true love can last forever. So don't be sad because guys don't pick you. That doesn't mean you're ugly. You should not feel ugly, you should accept yourself the way you are without having to feel depressed. Things like that shouldn't make your self-esteem sink low. Eventually you will find someone who you truly deserve and doesn't only like you because of the way you look or because of the clothes you wear, but because of who you are and how you act. Just be patient, and the time will come eventually.


-- Posted by tangerine of paris1 at 5:12 pm on Aug. 6, 2008

Quote: from Narfle the Garthok at 12:03 pm on Aug. 5, 2008


Quote: from revived5656 at 12:02 pm on Aug. 5, 2008

hang out with uglyer ppl it works

QFT


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