-- Posted by Byble at 12:02 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 This is a couples thing.. taken from: http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=9120000 http://i138.photobucket.com/albums/q274/Byble/TheSpoons-withmanbehind-otha.jpg The spoons - with the man behind This is a protective and sensual way to sleep. Protective because it makes a woman feel that her partner is looking after her in this position. But it's also sensual as the man can reach around and caress his partner. This position hints at a traditional relationship http://i138.photobucket.com/albums/q274/Byble/TheSpoons-womanbehind.jpg The spoons with the woman behind This is a very nurturing position and shows that the woman is the backbone of the relationship. She cuddles her partner and makes him feel loved and secure in this position. In this relationship the man wouldn't be frightened of letting go of responsibilities and letting his partner be his emotional anchor. http://i138.photobucket.com/albums/q274/Byble/polesapart.jpg Poles apart This is where both partners sleep on their sides, with their backs turned to each other, facing the edge of the bed. This signals that you lack connection with each other and you may suffer from a lack of intimacy. You might also be so independent in the way you run your lives, that you end up independent between the sheets! Make sure you're not living life on two parallel tracks that never meet and cross. http://i138.photobucket.com/albums/q274/Byble/pushedout.jpg Pushed out This is where one of you hogs the bed and literally makes the other partner feel pushed out. They cling to the edge of the bed and usually don't sleep well. Sometimes this is due to the partner's size - if they're large or tall they quite naturally take up too much space. However, if this isn't the case, it may signal that they are selfish in the relationship and dominating it. http://i138.photobucket.com/albums/q274/Byble/lusciouslust.jpg Luscious lust This position is where he sleeps on his back while she's on her side cuddled up into his arms for full-on contact. Not only does this make it easier for some night-time naughtiness but if you fall asleep this way too, then it signals you simply can't resist cuddling up and feeling that closeness. You're probably still in the honeymoon phase of your relationship and should make sure you don't lose some of that desire. http://i138.photobucket.com/albums/q274/Byble/emotionalneediness.jpg Emotional neediness He's signalling that he really needs you when you lie on your back and he cuddles up into your arms. He needs a real emotional connection and to feel comforted. Just make sure you don't find him too needy. Top tips to bridge the divide in the bedroom Always make up if you've argued before you go to bed. Couples who don't resolve their arguments end up feeling poles apart emotionally - as well as literally - when they turn away from their partner and refuse to have any contact. Nobody gets a good night's sleep in this mood! •  Let your partner know (particularly a new one that you may feel more inhibited around) if there's any reason you prefer a position that keeps you apart from them. It may be that you feel the heat very easily and so don't like another person's body warmth making you feel too hot. Or it may be that you've got a back problem and have to adopt a certain position to be comfortable. Whatever it is, make sure they don't think it's them if you choose a position that doesn't allow any connection. Always make up if you've argued before you go to bed. Couples who don't resolve their arguments end up feeling poles apart emotionally - as well as literally - when they turn away from their partner and refuse to have any contact. Nobody gets a good night's sleep in this mood! •  Let your partner know (particularly a new one that you may feel more inhibited around) if there's any reason you prefer a position that keeps you apart from them. It may be that you feel the heat very easily and so don't like another person's body warmth making you feel too hot. Or it may be that you've got a back problem and have to adopt a certain position to be comfortable. Whatever it is, make sure they don't think it's them if you choose a position that doesn't allow any connection. -- Posted by revived5656 at 12:02 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 none -- Posted by oridniv at 12:03 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 now why does the black couple have to be the separated ones....but i'm not gonna read thru all that i prefer when a guy cuddles me from behind and spoons me -- Posted by lilolme at 12:03 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 Thats hot!!!!!!!!!!!!! -- Posted by SparklingFlower at 12:03 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 I sleep w/ my cat on my legs. Sometimes on my chest. WHAT does that say about me? lol -- Posted by Byble at 12:03 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 Quote: from revived5656 at 8:02 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 none ok -- Posted by greenapple at 12:03 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 Quote: from lilolme at 12:03 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 Thats hot!!!!!!!!!!!!! f yea it is -- Posted by Relativity at 12:04 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 Impressive. -- Posted by Byble at 12:04 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 Quote: from SparklingFlower at 8:03 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 I sleep w/ my cat on my legs. Sometimes on my chest. WHAT does that say about me? lol that you love pussy cats..   -- Posted by Troll1000 at 12:04 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 Luscious Lust - Always happens -- Posted by MrJollyRancher at 12:05 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 Poles apart FTW. I prefer my space, bitches. -- Posted by Trash at 12:06 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 The last one -- Posted by stargazer1 at 12:06 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 my cat sleeps with me. -- Posted by acausedelle at 12:08 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 I sleep with the blanket. Where is that on there? -- Posted by robdude at 2:34 pm on Aug. 5, 2008 the spoons with you