Pages: 1 2  Next -- Posted by ird13 at 10:02 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 I hate being the stupid typical girl who feels fat. But I think I am. And I don't know how to see my body in a better light. I'm 5' 3" and I weigh 98.6 pounds. Compared to a lot of the girls I see (especially my closest friends) I feel really fat. I have one friend who is 5' 8" and she weighs less than me! (92-95 pounds) I don't know if really should lose weight or not. And I don't know enough about healthy dieting to do anything other than a crash diet. So I am eating less and less, but I am not losing any weight. I don't know what to do. Every time I am in a skin tight shirt or in a swimsuit, I feel like I'm 500 pounds. And when I look down, I can really see it. Am I losing my mind? Help!? -- Posted by Hggh7 at 10:03 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 You should atleast be 130 -- Posted by no day but today at 10:04 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Your friend is severely underweight. You understand that that's not healthy, right? You're fine. Could even stand to gain a few pounds. Learn to love your body. -- Posted by agentxprovocateur at 10:04 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 what you are SKINNY STRING BEAN SKINNY (from the pics at least) -- Posted by 4irate at 10:04 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 this made me feel obese because i am 5'3 and weigh 120.. YOUR NOT FAT. In fact I think unless your at least 100 your at an unhealthy weight. -- Posted by saylsen17 at 10:04 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Quote: from Hggh7 at 10:03 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 You should atleast be 130 agreed, bigger is sexy to me. -- Posted by hazeleyedangel at 10:05 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 You are perfectly healthy! if anything you are slightly underweight based on your height. Your friend who is 5' 8" and only 95lbs is drastically underweight, which is not healthy. If you can't turn your feelings about yourself around on your own and find yourself continuing to eat less, you need to get help. Anorexia is no joke. -- Posted by ReelStreetlights at 10:05 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Your friend is pretty underweight. I am 5'9'' and am 130lbs and don't have boobs. I am quite skinny with very little if any fat on me. -- Posted by Kamalli at 10:05 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 You really dont look 98 lbs for your height in your pics. I'm 140 (after being preg) and compared to what you think..I'm serverly obese. -- Posted by acausedelle at 10:05 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 You actually are underweight. -- Posted by Hggh7 at 10:05 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Quote: from saylsen17 at 12:04 am on Aug. 7, 2008 Quote: from Hggh7 at 10:03 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 You should atleast be 130 agreed, bigger is sexy to me. ahmen -- Posted by lingerie gurl at 10:06 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 You are taller than me, and weigh less then me. Think about it. -- Posted by HelHound at 10:07 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 You are not fat, if anything you could gain a few pounds.    My sister weighs about that much, and she is, only nine years old. And 4' somethin.   Me im 4' something and am 14 years old. And weigh about 100 pounds. -- Posted by ird13 at 10:07 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Quote: from Kamalli at 10:05 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 You really dont look 98 lbs for your height in your pics. I'm 140 (after being preg) and compared to what you think..I'm serverly obese. Do I look over or under? I don't know if that's good or bad   -- Posted by dumb whore at 10:09 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Well, your friend probably looks gross. Do you want to look gross? -- Posted by pumpkin475 at 10:09 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 how can you and your friend be the sizes yall are and not be in a rehab clinic? especially your friend. 5'8 and under 100 lbs? someone should have brought her to get help already -- Posted by raversFANTASY93 at 10:10 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 ima guy, im 5 4 and weigh like 125 -- Posted by static nightmare at 10:12 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Based on your pics, you look fine. You do have a problem, but its all in your head. -- Posted by KweenZ at 10:13 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 im 5'3'' 120. AND IM SMALL. Girl ur skin n bones gain some weight -- Posted by Aerie at 10:15 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 OMG! you are sooooo not fat. Try to focus on positive things instead. -- Posted by nigeltheoutlaw at 10:15 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Your friend is probably unhealthy and anorexic, and most definitely unnatractive. You are at a healthy, attractive weight. Keep it that way. PM me if you need more whatever. -- Posted by airemaye at 10:16 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Let me put it into perspective. I weigh 160 pounds. If you are fat, I am a fucking whale. Your friend sounds dangerously close to death. There's something called BMI, which calculates your height and weight to determine if they are proportionate to each other. I'm 5'8, and my BMI is in the "healthy weight" range. (Albeit the high end, but still, healthy weight). If your friend is 5'8 and less than 100 pounds...she must look like a walking skeleton. I'm worried about her. -- Posted by lingerie gurl at 10:16 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Quote: from ird13 at 10:07 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Quote: from Kamalli at 10:05 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 You really dont look 98 lbs for your height in your pics. I'm 140 (after being preg) and compared to what you think..I'm serverly obese. Do I look over or under? I don't know if that's good or bad over.... do you believe in make up or fashion at all? -- Posted by jamesish at 10:18 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Your friend isn't normal. Dont try to be like her. -- Posted by ird13 at 10:18 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Quote: from lingerie gurl at 10:16 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Quote: from ird13 at 10:07 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Quote: from Kamalli at 10:05 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 You really dont look 98 lbs for your height in your pics. I'm 140 (after being preg) and compared to what you think..I'm serverly obese. Do I look over or under? I don't know if that's good or bad   over....   do you believe in make up or fashion at all? thanks. i knew i was fat. finally someone who agrees with me! and no i dont need to cover my face in shit to feel like i have a pretty face.  and i dont have to conform and look like everyone else wearing the same clothes either, thankyouverymuch -- Posted by lingerie gurl at 10:20 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Quote: from ird13 at 10:18 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Quote: from lingerie gurl at 10:16 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Quote: from ird13 at 10:07 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Quote: from Kamalli at 10:05 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 You really dont look 98 lbs for your height in your pics. I'm 140 (after being preg) and compared to what you think..I'm serverly obese.   Do I look over or under? I don't know if that's good or bad    over....    do you believe in make up or fashion at all? thanks. i knew i wasw fat. finally someone who agrees with me! You don't look fat. I am saying the clothes you wear don't flatter your body at all. You seem to wear clothing that are bigger for your frame. You need to wear clothes that hug your body more. Also, you could try doing something about your physical appearence to be more appealing. -- Posted by cptg at 10:22 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 eat more please. -- Posted by lingerie gurl at 10:23 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 I am sorry, I guess I was too blunt. I didn't mean to sound like mean or anything. I am just a very straight forward type of person. -- Posted by ird13 at 10:41 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Quote: from lingerie gurl at 10:23 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 I am sorry, I guess I was too blunt. I didn't mean to sound like mean or anything. I am just a very straight forward type of person. It sounded mean. :( -- Posted by Crazy about Moore at 11:52 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 Quote: from im with stupid at 10:05 pm on Aug. 6, 2008 You actually are underweight. agreed Pages: 1 2  Next