-- Posted by Anonymous at 8:00 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Before you guys judge please take your time to understand where im coming from. I met this sweet caring person about a week ago. But i find it to be funny. because we met on chatroom. Something i never do, because its unsafe. But i did and here is this very cute, guy talking to me. Given me his number on the dot, and offering to show himself on cam. Were both 20. Talk and slowly getting to know each other, juss 2 days ago he said he loves me...  when asked if he is serious, he says yes, because of my personality. He wants to work with me to trust him.... I know its unsafe, but seeing him on cam and his voice as well while he's on cam. Idk if i should see where it goes. It can be love soo soon? Or lust.. Please be openminded bout this -- Posted by EllaYeah at 8:01 am on Aug. 10, 2008 If you meet him, go with a friend. -- Posted by roflfuckyou at 8:01 am on Aug. 10, 2008 I would say a bit of lust, but you should meet up with him a few times? In an open public place and don't go to his house or anything, build physical trust. -- Posted by AllEyezOnME at 8:02 am on Aug. 10, 2008 I think its lust. I dont believ that you can love someone that quick without knowing the real person. But if you like him and thik it could possibly work, whats stoping you from going ahead with it -- Posted by sexysinger123 at 8:02 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Are you stupid! oNline Predators he will rape you steal from you and leave you -- Posted by MrNoOne at 8:03 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Well I believe in the POSSIBILITY of online relationships. If he wants to meet you, make it a group date. Dont tell him your adress just yet and if you have just be alittle more cautious, not paranoid. Take these percautions and you should be fine. -- Posted by SerendipityDarling at 8:03 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Nobody can tell you that this isn't love, because love is different for everyone. Maybe you really are in love with him. When you meet someone on the internet, you only get to know the sides of them they want to show. In real life, there is no backspace to erase what someone might have said without thinking. Just bear in mind he might not be what he says he is. I would talk with him for a lot longer before meeting him. (: -- Posted by wakeNbake420 at 8:04 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Damn just meet someone in real life. -- Posted by hottashly14 at 8:04 am on Aug. 10, 2008 meet him in person but don't go alone. Them see if you really love him -- Posted by insane punk at 8:04 am on Aug. 10, 2008 well i don't know tbh i mean sadly i talk to guys in chatrooms a lot, I'm bored and they entertain me, and every single guy has said i love you within at least 2 or so days it never fails just be careful with it like don't go and meet him on your own he may be a psycho you never know with the weirdo's on the Internet -- Posted by countryLuv at 8:05 am on Aug. 10, 2008 well you are 20 years old this guy could be an abuser, rapist, and anything else in the world just be careful with what you do is all im saying and follow your heart but be cautious -- Posted by Kitty Kiska at 8:05 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Quote: from EllaYeah at 8:01 am on Aug. 10, 2008 If you meet him, go with a friend. If you seriously wish to do so...i know i have the same but its a year long thing and i want to see him to be sure if it will be the same -- Posted by Nobodys Listening at 8:05 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Just make your you take the common pre-cautions when meeting him and don't do anything your gut tells you not to do. I'm not going to judge you. Believe me, I know the ends and outs of relationship like that far too well. It can end very badly or it can blossom into a amazingly beautiful thing. Of course there is the chance that both of those things happen... but I'd rather not worry you and I'd say it's lust. Get to know him before you put your heart on the line. -- Posted by samanthaafacex at 8:05 am on Aug. 10, 2008 its unsafe. why do you think there are so many shows on chatrooms and meeting people online. people are different when they're online as compared to in person. -- Posted by Cheeserock at 8:06 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Well... its all a bit dodgy... but if you do decide to meet with him, make sure its in a public place like a cafe or something, and make sure a friend is with you. -- Posted by ManicD at 8:06 am on Aug. 10, 2008 no, problem, i met someone i knew off here under much the same theory, just leave a note on your side at home saying where you have gone when you go meet him, if anything happened, people know where to start looking -- Posted by the pre at 8:08 am on Aug. 10, 2008 def sounding like lust... i'd take a friend w. you if you go to him -- Posted by EmmitWinchell at 8:10 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Well I met the woman I am marrying online and we talk online all the time as well as for meeting we have yet to do that but I trust her with all of my heart and she has told me the same as has her two brothers but we have also been together for 8 months so talk get to know each other but becareful. -- Posted by Anonymous at 8:13 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Thank you all for your advice. And i am following everything that has been said. Which is taken it slow and not rushing. Because anything can happen. However, were both 20 and i heard and saw him on cam. And my heart isnt on the line sooo fast taken it slow as possible. Which he seems to understand. Thanks again. -- Posted by jami x3 at 8:15 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Definitely bring a friend... but if you honestly believe that it could work go for it.. who knows what you could miss out on! -- Posted by bluerosedangel at 8:16 am on Aug. 10, 2008 In my own opinion I think it's way too soon of him to be saying "I love you". I don't exactly know the time frame of which you guys have been talking, but it could very well be love. I've been talking to someone online for 5 months now, and I am not sure if it's love, but it's just as strong. But I agree with everyone else - take someone with you if you go meet him; that's what I did. It could develop more into love once you meet him. And if you're unsure about going to see him, maybe see if he can come see you. -- Posted by Anonymous at 8:22 am on Aug. 10, 2008 Thanks again. I shall. We only been talking soon to be a week. If not so -- Posted by its only me again at 8:31 am on Aug. 10, 2008 i'd do it, but go with a friend. Its not like your 13, you're an adult, jus go with a friend -- Posted by erolimo at 8:50 am on Aug. 10, 2008 When you go to meet him, he will send his men to kidnap you and then I can't imagine what they are going to do with you. Do you really trust him? -- Posted by breannafhchick06 at 9:02 am on Aug. 10, 2008 take someone with you  and be careful -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 10:12 am on Aug. 10, 2008 I think its lust. I dont believ that you can love someone that quick without knowing the real person. I fell in love with my (ex) girlfriend, whom I met online, pretty much within the seconds of talking to her.