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-- Posted by takethechance at 1:33 pm on Aug. 11, 2008

alright, so first off i'm a guy and i have 3 roommates and i just moved into my dorm last week.

i fell asleep the other night in my dorm with my hands behind my head in a nice relaxed position. i guess my shirt lifted up when i laid my arms back, so about half of my stomach was showing (all the way up to about an inch above my belly button). and fyi, i kind of have a dark, thick happy trail.

anyways, the next morning, when i was still about 95% alseep, i woke up to someone brushing my happy trail back and forth with their fingers. i barely opened my eyes and sort of saw a figure standing above me. he said "i like happy trails on guys...it's nice and masculine." and since i was about 95% asleep i didn't really know what was going on, i was like "uhhhhh go away". and he's like "hold on." and then he kept brushing his fingers through it, and then i heard him go away.

then i fell asleep.

and then a few hours later i woke up and was a little freaked out. what the fuck???? i'm pretty sure it wasn't a dream and i'm pretty sure it was real. i couldn't remember what he looked like since i had a blurry vision and just remember a shadowy figure. can't remember what he sounded like either because he was talking in whispers.

and i'm a little freaked out and i barely know my roommates and i don't want to ask cuz that's uncomfortable for me.

but now it's werid because i don't know which roommates i can trust.

but then again...what if it was a dream? advice please...i don't want to get man raped haha...


-- Posted by 4irate at 1:34 pm on Aug. 11, 2008

ask him if he ever will man rape you.


-- Posted by The Fantasy at 1:34 pm on Aug. 11, 2008

that is creepy, if you dont know if it was a dream o not you'll just kinda have to slyly ask him :/


-- Posted by drifting at 1:35 pm on Aug. 11, 2008

Invest in a camera over top of your bed?


-- Posted by A Red One at 1:35 pm on Aug. 11, 2008

Ugh o_O


-- Posted by MystiqueBeauty16 at 1:36 pm on Aug. 11, 2008

Quote: from drifting at 1:35 pm on Aug. 11, 2008


Invest in a camera over top of your bed?

This.


-- Posted by takethechance at 1:36 pm on Aug. 11, 2008

ahhh you guys aren't giving me good adviceee


-- Posted by devinx33 at 1:37 pm on Aug. 11, 2008

Quote: from drifting at 1:35 pm on Aug. 11, 2008


Invest in a camera over top of your bed?

haha yes indeed.


-- Posted by A Red One at 1:37 pm on Aug. 11, 2008

Just ask them if they bat for the same team?


-- Posted by Krelian393 at 1:37 pm on Aug. 11, 2008

You're right to be freaked out, but be wise about this. This guy stepped over the line by touching you while you were asleep, and that isn't cool. It's not as if he made a pass at you while you were awake and could actually respond seriously. Um. Let's see here. The guy might be BI, so you might be oblivious if he only talks about girls. It would be weird to bring up, and they might think it was a dream and think you're gay for having a dream about a guy touching you (which would only suck because it's not true, not because being gay is bad).

I actually don't have advice. This is a damn off situation. Sorry guy.


-- Posted by mattis12 at 1:44 pm on Aug. 11, 2008

ick. id be all GTFO me!


-- Posted by takethechance at 1:45 pm on Aug. 11, 2008

Quote: from mattis12 at 1:44 pm on Aug. 11, 2008


ick. id be all GTFO me!

i didn't really know what was going on though. i was pretty much asleep.


-- Posted by MR UNKNOWN at 1:48 pm on Aug. 11, 2008

just be like

"okay, who the fuck touched my happy trail!"


-- Posted by katyrose at 10:37 am on Aug. 12, 2008

Quote: from mr unknown at 1:48 pm on Aug. 11, 2008


just be like

"okay, who the fuck touched my happy trail!"


what he said. Play it off as like a joke.


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