-- Posted by malignant melanoma at 7:58 pm on Aug. 11, 2008 "What must be shall be." -- Posted by WeepingWillow at 7:59 pm on Aug. 11, 2008 who is she? -- Posted by mnight at 7:59 pm on Aug. 11, 2008 yeah, because that's totally your fault. -- Posted by Micus at 8:00 pm on Aug. 11, 2008 Once you finally move away you'll never have to hear her bitch ever again. She'll get over it. -- Posted by Majo at 8:00 pm on Aug. 11, 2008 I can understand where you're both coming from, my boyfriend and I are/were in the same sort of situation. I'm upset that he won't be with me but I don't want him to be uspet so I try to keep him happy which is what I think your girlfriend should be doing as well. Now is not the time to be selfish. -- Posted by MystiqueBeauty16 at 8:00 pm on Aug. 11, 2008 Why are you blaming yourself? It's exactly what she(whoever she is) wants. She wants you to feel bad about yourself and blame yourself just so you'll stay with her. Don't let her get to you: You need a college education. -- Posted by major at 8:00 pm on Aug. 11, 2008 my mom started sobbing today about how she doesn't want me to go off to college and abandon her and think about how horrible my childhood was and basically guilted me into staying in-state i can definitely sympathize -- Posted by 721 at 5:06 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 moms can be selfish. just because they don't want to be alone... don't fall for it. she's being manipulative! -- Posted by 721 at 5:07 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 Quote: from Majo at 8:00 pm on Aug. 11, 2008 I can understand where you're both coming from, my boyfriend and I are/were in the same sort of situation. I'm upset that he won't be with me but I don't want him to be uspet so I try to keep him happy which is what I think your girlfriend should be doing as well. Now is not the time to be selfish. okay whoa whoa whoa. mother-daughter relationship =/= boyfriend-girlfriend relationship... and thats whats fucked up with the world today.