Pages: 1 2  Next -- Posted by Lustx at 8:56 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 Last night I lost my virginity to boyfriend... I didn't really want to do it but he made me do it anyway... all I can say about it is that it really hurt a lot and he was using his body weight to pin me to bed the whole time... then when he ejaculated and withdrew, I saw his penis didn't have a condom on it and I said "You didn't even use a condom you jackass?" and he just dumbly answered "Um, no" And then I just gathered up my clothes and left his house without another word... We have been together since January of this year but I am really scared because I only turned 13 just over a week ago and he is 21 now... my dad doesn't even know about our relationship and I'm really scared to tell him, and I don't know where I can get a pregnancy or STD test... please help me, I'm absolutely terrified and in shock and panic right now... -- Posted by Reefer at 8:57 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 Call the cops cuz he raped you if he pinned you down -- Posted by barbigirli at 8:57 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 RAPE RAPE -- Posted by butterflyboy at 8:58 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 DAMN -- Posted by WeepingWillow at 8:58 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 can we say RAPE?! -- Posted by jmh7 at 8:58 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 21 and 13????? -- Posted by Clara Bell at 8:58 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 I would call the cops. Now. -- Posted by Skeeter8 at 8:58 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 wow that sucks u need to tell ur dad cuz thats illeagal huney -- Posted by iwashere85 at 8:58 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 Did you say no? Did he actually force you? This screams rape to me... Are you okay, first of all? Notice any changes? I'm sorry to hear this. I suggest contacting Planned Parenthood. -- Posted by Pdiamond at 8:58 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 RAPE!!! tell your dad! and its illegal for you 2 to have sex so...SEND THE POLICE ON HIS ASS!!!! (in all seriousness) -- Posted by tropicalbreezze2 at 8:59 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 its rape even if he didnt pin you down because you are only 13 its stagatory rape -- Posted by jami x3 at 8:59 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 idk if canada has planned parenthood? or some kind of womens health clinic. you should be able to get free pregnancy tests there. i would start by calling the police tho, they can probably help you. -- Posted by Jakev0813 at 8:59 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 1 its rape. and your only 13. how long have you been on your period? sorry to be personal. but if not long then you might be okay. and you can go to a family planning to get STD tested.. i would.. 21 with a 13.  yea. -- Posted by penguinsrule at 8:59 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 go get the plan B pill. if this happened yesterday you can still get it and it should work within the next 24 hrs..... and report his ass..... -- Posted by gothrocker at 9:00 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 You should tell your dad the guy raped you. cuz thats what happened. -- Posted by CaliKevin at 9:00 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 Go to a nearby clinic and get an emergency contraceptive pill.   It should be free. Also, never speak to that dickhead again. -- Posted by Aerie at 9:00 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 Go get the morning after pill. And call the cops, and tell your dad. That was rape, Your dad'll beat his ass. -- Posted by aGIRLunknown at 9:01 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 Quote: from tropicalbreezze2 at 11:59 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 its rape even if he didn't pin you down because you are only 13 its stagatory rape correct... -- Posted by HelHound at 9:01 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 He raped you Hun, call the cops. And either way, it is still rape, your under age.   As for that, your probably gonna have to go to a clinic to get those done.  If you need anyone to talk to, feel free to message me. -- Posted by JJ4 at 9:01 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 yea call the police wuld b a wise move and tell ur dad 2 -- Posted by BeautifulxLiar at 9:03 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 Quote: from iwashere85 at 11:58 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 Did you say no?   Did he actually force you? This screams rape to me...   Are you okay, first of all? Notice any changes?       I'm sorry to hear this. I suggest contacting Planned Parenthood. pretty sweet advice, i agree -- Posted by muffin666 at 9:03 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 PEDOPHILIA!!!! Holy crap you're a complete idiot and that's all. Idiot -.- -- Posted by Lustx at 9:03 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 I have been having regular periods since I was 11 now which is why I'm worried... I'll go through the phonebook to see if there are any clinics close to where I live, I just really hope I don't need to be a certain age or parental consent to get tests.. thank you everyone -- Posted by nickiiROCKETSHIP at 9:03 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 Dude that's rape. Not even statutory since you didn't want it. Plus the fact that he's legally an adult. CALL THE COPS! OR TELL YOUR PARENTS! -- Posted by exxys at 9:04 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 Ok, that guy is definatly what we like to call a pedophile.  He took something really special from you, and he has no right to do that.  You should lock that bastard up.  It's not your fault, sweetie, he took advantage of you! -- Posted by Greater than Angels at 9:18 pm on Aug. 12, 2008 Okay sweetie, you need to do three things here: a) Tell you father b) Call the police c) Get medical attention NOW. I am not going to question how you got involved with this boy in the first place, because that is irrelevant, but 13 and 21 is a MASSIVE age difference - you cannot let him get away with this. Taking advantage of someone as young as yourself, and hurting them this way, is a very serious crime. He is physically and legally an adult and he knows perfectly well that what he did to you was wrong. If your father really loves and cares about you, he will be more concerned about getting you medical attention and putting the man who hurt his daughter behind bars than the fact that you were seeing someone you probably should not have been hanging around with. Please tell him and the police and get yourself to a hospital ASAP. Best wishes - keep us updated. -- Posted by Poisonetta at 11:50 am on Aug. 13, 2008 Its rape dear. Tell your parents, break it off with him and call the police. I cannot even begin to comprehend a 13 year old with a 21 year old... -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 1:04 pm on Aug. 13, 2008 That seems quite like a common rape situation. -- Posted by Addicted 2 Candy at 2:33 pm on Aug. 13, 2008 if he pinned u down then he raped u..tell someone -- Posted by daveythewavey19 at 3:07 pm on Aug. 13, 2008 i see what you did there troll Pages: 1 2  Next