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-- Posted by Sparkle Me Pink at 1:45 pm on Aug. 14, 2008

Well a few months ago I moved in to a college apartment with my cousin. Me and her are pretty close so we thought it would be a good idea and it was in the beginning. Then about a month and a half later one of her best friends moved in. At first everything was fine...but then things just got out of hand. My cousin started ditching me to be with her. The two of them constantly made rude comments and such to me, thinking I thought it was funny when I didn't. I know they talk about me when I'm not home...and its just ridiculous. I can't stand living there...in fact I hate it so much I have been living with my boyfriend every night at his place, just because I hate to go home and face them. I signed a 9 month lease, so I am stuck there until school ends, but then I am getting out. Luckily a friend of mine is moving in next week, so hopefully it will make being there more bearable.

This is mostly just a pointless rant, but has anyone else dealt with a similar issue?


-- Posted by xJosex at 1:47 pm on Aug. 14, 2008

move out


-- Posted by Link01 at 1:47 pm on Aug. 14, 2008

do the same to her lol


-- Posted by Sparkle Me Pink at 1:52 pm on Aug. 14, 2008

Quote: from Link01 at 2:47 pm on Aug. 14, 2008


do the same to her lol


That's the thing...she is claiming that I always leave her out when I am with my boyfriend, and I would rather be with my boyfriend than her. Well obviously...I mean it is normal to want to be with your boyfriend all the time right? I just hate drama, I am not a drama person at all and that is why this is all ridiculous to me.


-- Posted by xlovexmex at 1:57 pm on Aug. 14, 2008

Quote: from Sparkle Me Pink at 1:45 pm on Aug. 14, 2008


I signed a 9 month lease, so I am stuck there until school ends, but then I am getting out.

couldn't you get someone to take over the lease? if you don't like it what's the point living there it's really hard to fix a relationship if there is so much strain on it. being there for how many months left on your lease while your already unhappy could possibly ruin yuor future relationship with your cousin. it's probably best if you get someone to take over the lease.


-- Posted by Sparkle Me Pink at 2:01 pm on Aug. 14, 2008

Quote: from xlovexmex at 2:57 pm on Aug. 14, 2008


Quote: from Sparkle Me Pink at 1:45 pm on Aug. 14, 2008

I signed a 9 month lease, so I am stuck there until school ends, but then I am getting out.

couldn't you get someone to take over the lease? if you don't like it what's the point living there it's really hard to fix a relationship if there is so much strain on it. being there for how many months left on your lease while your already unhappy could possibly ruin yuor future relationship with your cousin. it's probably best if you get someone to take over the lease.


That's what I really want to do, its just finding someone to take over my lease. And I guess my landlord isn't too fond of people doing that, which makes it a bigger mess. I do have a long time left on my lease, which bums me out. Me and my cousin are supposed to meet up sometime next week to talk about things, it just makes me even more mad that her friend that lives with us is avoiding me like the plague and hates me more than ever now because my cousin talked to her about how much I didn't like her. Gag...drama.


-- Posted by xlovexmex at 2:22 pm on Aug. 14, 2008

Quote: from Sparkle Me Pink at 2:01 pm on Aug. 14, 2008


Quote: from xlovexmex at 2:57 pm on Aug. 14, 2008

Quote: from Sparkle Me Pink at 1:45 pm on Aug. 14, 2008

I signed a 9 month lease, so I am stuck there until school ends, but then I am getting out.
 

 couldn't you get someone to take over the lease? if you don't like it what's the point living there it's really hard to fix a relationship if there is so much strain on it. being there for how many months left on your lease while your already unhappy could possibly ruin yuor future relationship with your cousin. it's probably best if you get someone to take over the lease.


That's what I really want to do, its just finding someone to take over my lease. And I guess my landlord isn't too fond of people doing that, which makes it a bigger mess. I do have a long time left on my lease, which bums me out. Me and my cousin are supposed to meet up sometime next week to talk about things, it just makes me even more mad that her friend that lives with us is avoiding me like the plague and hates me more than ever now because my cousin talked to her about how much I didn't like her. Gag...drama.


I don't see why the landlord doesn't like it. they are still getting their money. her friend sounds like a bitch. she shouldn't be starting a ton of drama in there. it's ridiculous.


-- Posted by Sparkle Me Pink at 4:16 pm on Aug. 18, 2008

She is a bitch...flat out. I haven't done anything to her, but yet when she found out I didn't like her..all of a sudden I was the enemy. I just hate sitting locked up in my room while they are here because I don't want confrontation. Its ridiculous.


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