-- Posted by Anonymous at 10:28 pm on Aug. 14, 2008 i was dating this guy for a few weeks.  one day i got completely wasted and we had sex..without a condom.  he was stone cold sober. my boyfriend and i broke up a few weeks ago.  hes been trying to get back together ever since, but i wasnt sure. i told him i thought  i was pregnant.  he kinda freaked out a bit but was ok.  i took the test a few days ago and found out i am pregnant.  when i told him, he was a complete ass.  he usually calls me a few times a day, but i havent heard from him.  any advice? -- Posted by Just Waiting Here at 10:30 pm on Aug. 14, 2008 Well, he's probably a bit shocked.  There is a very big difference between 'I think I'm pregnant' and 'I am pregnant'. He may need some time... and while you may really need his support right now, he may not be completely capable of providing it. On the other hand, he may truly want nothign to do with it, as he's uninterested in the child... in which case, there's not much you can do :( -- Posted by evilteen at 10:32 pm on Aug. 14, 2008 DAYUM GIRL you messed up a bit but no big worries on this one you kinda have to figure it out on your own I mean do you want to get back with your ex? do you wanna keep that baby? and if you choose to keep it where are you end up with that kid? -- Posted by NORDAC510 at 10:39 pm on Aug. 14, 2008 damn -- Posted by Anonymous at 10:40 pm on Aug. 14, 2008 after this shit, i definately dont want to get back together with him. &&i dont know.  i never thought i would even concider an abortion, but im not sure if i can handle a kid, let alone on my own. -- Posted by swtpie at 2:58 pm on Aug. 17, 2008 He is probably just taking it in. It's a big deal. He is feeling the pressure, cause this is a huge life changing situation. Call him up and get together and talk about it.