-- Posted by Skeeter Hearts at 12:34 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 Okay, so as you all prolly know, I have 10 brothers. Who are extremely overprotective of me, because I am the youngest and the only girl. So, I recently had sex for the first time with this boy who I met a year ago. We dated for about 7 months and then He moved so we had to break up, because we knew the long distance thing wouldn't work. He came back 2 weeks and like 3 days ago, we had sex because I was alone at my house while the boys were at some wrestling match. I was going to go, but Braden didn't have that much money, and the boys wanted to go way more than I did. Anyway.. I did it, and I need a way to tell Braden so he can take me to the doctor to be put on birth control, we used a condom, but I want to use extra protection if it happens again. How do I go about telling my older brother/guardian that I just had sex and I need birth control without making him totally mad at me? Thanks.. - Peyton -- Posted by Aqueous at 12:35 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 How old are you? -- Posted by Z o E at 12:35 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 dont tell him. go family planning clinic all by yourself -- Posted by gman101 at 12:35 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 just tell him that it was on accident -- Posted by rokkin1 at 12:36 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 You don't have to, if he uses a condom it will be fine -- Posted by Skeeter Hearts at 12:36 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 Quote: from jzbaby at 12:35 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 How old are you? I'm 14.. Why? -- Posted by VitalExistence at 12:36 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 just sit him down and tell him -- Posted by drifting at 12:36 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 Get them to take you to the doctor, dont tell them what. -- Posted by greatescape at 12:36 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 You could just say that you have been having bad cramps and such, and have heard BC helps (it does).  There are other reasons to be on bc than to reduce the risk of pregnancy -- Posted by Paisapunkprincess at 12:36 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 Wow ten bros thats has got to suckkkkkkkkkkkkkk cant you go by yourself? how old are you? -- Posted by Aqueous at 12:37 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 Quote: from Skeeter Hearts at 3:36 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 Quote: from jzbaby at 12:35 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 How old are you? I'm 14.. Why? Just wondering, because most teen clinics you can get it yourself if you're 16..but i guess you cant, youre too young.. -- Posted by its only me at 12:38 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 just tell him your periods are heavy - one of the most common reasons its used -- Posted by writergirl at 12:38 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 Quote: from Skeeter Hearts at 3:36 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 Quote: from jzbaby at 12:35 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 How old are you? I'm 14.. Why? thats a bit young... i have a feeling your bro is gonna freak regardless of how you tell him -- Posted by vicky91 at 12:41 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 dont tell him you had sex just say you want birth control incase you do hve sex thats the easiet way :D -- Posted by Skeeter Hearts at 1:37 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 i think i might do that..lol -- Posted by flon92 at 4:11 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 just done tell them and go on it enyway thats what i did at first but now my mum knows and im on thee implant its easier that way lol untill u get found out x -- Posted by Skeeter Hearts at 10:58 am on Aug. 20, 2008 Nevermind., I'm pregnant now... i think