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-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:45 am on Aug. 19, 2008

Talking about how useless I am. And about how I'm going to fuck everything up when I start online schooling this year. She hasn't even given me a chance yet. Shes going on about how I lie to everyone and blah blah blah. She talks about me to her friends all the time. She uses everything I say and everything my friends do and say against me. She sits and screams at me all day and tell me how much she hates me, Of course I'm gonna be a fucking bitch to her. She never talks to me about anything. Shes always screaming and acting like a fucking maniac and taking out all her problems with my dad on me and blames me for everything.

Alright I'm done, you don't have to fucking reply.


I wish she would just stop it.
Ive been crying everyday and Ive been thinking of killing myself everyday. Why is she fucking doing this to me?


-- Posted by DarkSunshine at 11:46 am on Aug. 19, 2008

Is there anywhere else you could go?


-- Posted by The Stranger at 11:47 am on Aug. 19, 2008

my mom does that too


-- Posted by deadkennedy14 at 11:47 am on Aug. 19, 2008

you should join all these things we hate. they really help out.


-- Posted by rickyspeople at 11:47 am on Aug. 19, 2008

sounds like she is an unhappy woman who uses you as an outlet to let out all her anger and frustration, you're the victim


-- Posted by XxTeraXx at 11:48 am on Aug. 19, 2008

I know the feeling :[


-- Posted by shadowofchar at 11:48 am on Aug. 19, 2008

If she tells you she hates you, remind her that she is the parent and you are the child; that you were the clay and she was the sculptor; that if she doesn't like who you've come to be, she only has herself to blame. Getting your parents to admit to their mistakes is the first step in rebuilding a relationship with them. Until the parents admit that they screwed up while raising the kid, the kid will refuse to continue with the relationship-mending process (and rightfully so).


-- Posted by Aliboo at 11:48 am on Aug. 19, 2008

Of course Im going to reply. Her verbal abuse is really hurting you, so much so that you want to hurt yourself. That isnt right. You need to seek help, someone you can talk with because you are so overwhelmed by her actions. Avoid situations with her that make you upset, and think about confronting her through a letter or counseling.

Talk to her about the attitude issues and avoid fighting and yelling. Im sorry its not easy


-- Posted by HangEmHigh at 11:52 am on Aug. 19, 2008

You need to talk to someone and tell them about this. Maybe get someone to talk to your mum as well, as she seems to be very unhappy and is venting her anger out on you. Try not to think about hurting yourself, but how both of you can get better.


-- Posted by MissPrixy07 at 11:57 am on Aug. 19, 2008

I think it would be best for you to get away from her for a while. Are your parents divorced? Could you live with your father or a grandparent? If it's getting to the point where you want to hurt yourself....that is terrible. Tell a responsible adult who can help you out. She doesn't sound like the type of person who will listen, so find someone else.


-- Posted by its only me at 11:59 am on Aug. 19, 2008

my mum does that too


-- Posted by vicky91 at 12:02 pm on Aug. 19, 2008

theres no point wasting your life because of her, try and move out as soon as you can. try and get out the house as much as possible and stay at a friends

you can pm me if you want
xx


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