-- Posted by AthenaRuth at 1:38 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 i have brown, curly hair there and i'm a girl and i think i would feel weird and masculine with my cute blond boyfriend who probably has light hair there and i'd just feel so manly...because darker seems manlierrrrr somehow. should i shave, wax? bleach? sounds painful and embarrassing? any alternatives? -- Posted by acalypha at 1:39 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 he wouldn't necessarily have blond hair -- Posted by joz 12345 at 1:39 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 get waxed -- Posted by sexyboy13 at 1:39 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 You should just shave it off. Alot of guys don't like for a girl to have pubes anyways... -- Posted by kristajoe2009 at 1:39 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 i wouldn't worry too much about that.... seriously -- Posted by DemolitionxXxLover at 1:39 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 just wax or shave -- Posted by FabulouslyBritish at 1:40 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Trim it right down then shave! GL (: -- Posted by AthenaRuth at 1:40 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Quote: from DemolitionxXxLover at 1:39 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 just wax or shave PAAAAAAAAAINNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!! -- Posted by bloodhunter at 1:42 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Quote: from kristajoe2009 at 4:39 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 i wouldn't worry too much about that.... seriously Agreed -- Posted by senorita smirnoff at 1:42 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 most people have darker pubic hair. While i generally keep it neat, my boyfriend isnt scared of hair, so dont go getting it waxed or shaving if ur uncomfortable with it. Talk to ur boyfriend and see what his feelings are on the matter before you worry. -- Posted by eorwollh at 1:43 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Quote: from AthenaRuth at 1:40 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Quote: from DemolitionxXxLover at 1:39 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 just wax or shave PAAAAAAAAAINNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!! yes, very much.   -- Posted by Cambria at 1:45 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Don't worry about it. -- Posted by DemolitionxXxLover at 1:48 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Quote: from AthenaRuth at 4:40 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Quote: from DemolitionxXxLover at 1:39 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 just wax or shave PAAAAAAAAAINNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!! Then don't wax or shave. I don't know what you want from me. -- Posted by stephy8618 at 6:25 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 yes.  lose the hair down there.  betcha he'd prefer it that way. -- Posted by IslandAtWar at 9:30 am on Aug. 26, 2008 As long as you're comfortable with it, he probably will be too. When it comes to going down on a girl though, trimming would probably be appreciated. Some guys might not mind the muff, but some don't exactly love getting little curly hairs stuck on their tongue. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 9:46 am on Aug. 26, 2008 You should just shave it off. Alot of guys don't like for a girl to have pubes anyways... And you know what's the problem with that? The guy's opinion matters not. -- Posted by steven7 at 11:30 am on Aug. 26, 2008 pain is beauty -- Posted by itoldyou at 8:46 pm on Aug. 26, 2008 just shave it off -- Posted by Chino at 12:43 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Shaving is so overrated.  Many girls say they shave just to fit in and to prevent people from going "eeewwww" but next time you are at a locker/shower room at your local gym or wherever, tell me how many shaved girls do you see around you, see what I mean? -- Posted by yodian14 at 2:12 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 trim -- Posted by Zlog at 2:22 am on Aug. 28, 2008 just trim it up. If you start out shaved he'll expect it that way lol -- Posted by getforless at 2:54 am on Aug. 28, 2008 painful ! -- Posted by Jake08 at 10:45 am on Aug. 28, 2008 I would wax or shave. -- Posted by adam12 at 7:39 pm on Aug. 29, 2008 i have no idea what percentage of females in a locker room are shaved.  but i'm curious about it. -- Posted by Chino at 10:50 am on Aug. 30, 2008 Quote: from adam12 at 7:39 pm on Aug. 29, 2008 i have no idea what percentage of females in a locker room are shaved. but i'm curious about it. I was talking to a girl about it, on how overrated it is to shave and people just want to fit in and proclaim they shave when they simply don't.  She is int he swimming team and water polo so I asked her if all girls are shaved and she was like "No way!" I mean, she travels around competing, goes to the gym, etc.  And is yet to remember a girl completely shaved.  Maybe one or two but the rest were natural or trimmed.  Natural doesn't mean dirty.  A girl can shave her legs, armpits, bikini line, etc.  And keep her hair down there nicely groomed and clean.  People just make a big deal out of it really. -- Posted by ApatheticKiller at 1:05 pm on Sep. 2, 2008 Quote: from Zlog at 2:22 am on Aug. 28, 2008 just trim it up. If you start out shaved he'll expect it that way lol Ha, that's true I was already shaved when I met my current boyfriend, and now i feel a weird obligation to always be perfectly shaved. But as for the PAAAAIIINNN response, I don't think shaving hurts.  I've never waxed, so I don't know about that.  I would imagine it would hurt, but I know shaving doesn't hurt me. -- Posted by nik1 at 12:06 pm on Sep. 3, 2008 How silly! Don't you think he will be as intrigued by your hair color as you are his?   There is nothing more beautiful and sexy as a woman that looks like a woman, not a bald pre-pubescent child.  Spruce it up a bit, trim it up real good and he will be a wild man. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 12:19 pm on Sep. 3, 2008 not a bald pre-pubescent child Not everyone who shaves looks like that. That's just a social concept. And if your guy wants you to do something you're not used to doing, whether it be shaving, or keeping the hair there, then that guy has no right being in your life. You do things for yourself, no for anyoen else. His opinion does not matter. Nor does yours, with the hair upon his body. Like me. I hate men with hair on their arms, legs, balls, chest, face. But I'm not going to go up to my guy, and be like, "Hey, you, shave."