-- Posted by Anonymous at 10:16 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 im a loner had few friends in highschool and no close friends since i was 12 years old. and im 19 now. human beings are a social race, we like to be around people. we like to have friends. we like to impress other people with the things we do. its a curse to be tossed to the side and not given a second thought. so what im saying, isnt feel sorry for me. its think twice next time you "look down" on someone and think of trying to hurt their feelings. you never know which fat or ugly joke is going to break someones spirit -- Posted by sosupkthnx at 10:17 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 I know how you feel bro, I feel like I'm dying from being lonely for so long, it's killing me. -- Posted by LightThisCity at 10:18 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Looks mean everything these days. -- Posted by Clouse227 at 10:18 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Being alone is amazing. Silence is golden. Try to be optimistic. Yes, humans are social creatures, but dont let that fact bring you all the way down. Being alone usually equals more time to think clearly and quietly. Use your time wisely. Dont dwell on loneliness. -- Posted by truexblue at 10:18 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 I agree. D: -- Posted by acausedelle at 10:19 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Being lonely is great! You don't have to interact with other people! I'm not being sarcastic. I like being lonely. People just hinder what you really are capable of. -- Posted by dr woot at 10:19 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Having bamboo shoved in your fingernails is worse I'd say. -- Posted by Anonymous at 10:20 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 alot of nice people replying to this. lol i think its because all the assholes only reply to things that are 3 sentances or less -- Posted by BuddyHollyfan5000 at 10:20 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 I don't really hate anybody or try to hurt anybodys feelings. But I do look down upon many people who are immature for their age, same with my girlfriend, she's the same. -- Posted by matthewlovelady at 10:20 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 All my friends I've known for 14 years are leaving me. Now I guess I'm just going to be one of those people who accept being alone is inevitable. -- Posted by silverbullets at 10:20 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 1:16 am on Aug. 20, 2008 im a loner had few friends in highschool and no close friends since i was 12 years old. and im 19 now.     human beings are a social race, we like to be around people. we like to have friends. we like to impress other people with the things we do. its a curse to be tossed to the side and not given a second thought.   so what im saying, isnt feel sorry for me. its think twice next time you "look down" on someone and think of trying to hurt their feelings.   you never know which fat or ugly joke is going to break someones spirit join the club. -- Posted by Clouse227 at 10:21 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Quote: from im with stupid at 10:19 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Being lonely is great! You don't have to interact with other people! I'm not being sarcastic. I like being lonely. People just hinder what you really are capable of. Let's be alone together. -- Posted by SgtPatches at 10:21 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Yeah, being lonely is a lot worse than starving and having AIDS. -- Posted by acausedelle at 10:23 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Quote: from Clouse227 at 12:21 am on Aug. 20, 2008 Quote: from im with stupid at 10:19 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Being lonely is great! You don't have to interact with other people!    I'm not being sarcastic. I like being lonely. People just hinder what you really are capable of. Let's be alone together. That would ruin the whole concept.   -- Posted by Clouse227 at 10:25 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Quote: from im with stupid at 10:23 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Quote: from Clouse227 at 12:21 am on Aug. 20, 2008 Quote: from im with stupid at 10:19 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Being lonely is great! You don't have to interact with other people!   I'm not being sarcastic. I like being lonely. People just hinder what you really are capable of.    Let's be alone together. That would ruin the whole concept. Lolzer. Are you serious, or are you countering my sarcasm with some of your own? oh, and also, one more thing to the OP. You can be alone, yet not lonely, and you can be in a crowd, yet lonely. -- Posted by medjai at 10:26 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Loneliness is self inflicted except in extreme circumstances such as being imprisoned in solitary confinement or being subjected to sensory deprivation for long periods of time or if you are severely autistic and cannot connect with other people. If you are upset about being alone in highschool you have every opportunity to fix it as long as you don't expect stupid shit like being super popular or whatever. Thee are clubs at school, fucking join some, play a sport or join the cross country team or student council or even band or the kids that play dungeons and dragons or magic the gathering. Don't try to impress them and put yourself in a bad situation be humble and friendly and interested in their lives rather than expect them to suddenly be interested in yours. -- Posted by HoldingOnToNothing at 10:27 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Quote: from LightThisCity at 10:18 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Looks mean everything these days. -- Posted by gola15 at 10:28 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 being lonely sucks :( I know -- Posted by FutileRhetoric at 10:32 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 10:16 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 im a loner had few friends in highschool and no close friends since i was 12 years old. and im 19 now.     human beings are a social race, we like to be around people. we like to have friends. we like to impress other people with the things we do. its a curse to be tossed to the side and not given a second thought.   so what im saying, isnt feel sorry for me. its think twice next time you "look down" on someone and think of trying to hurt their feelings.   you never know which fat or ugly joke is going to break someones spirit No, not even in America is this the worse thing. Billions of people live malnourished and literally fear the next day because they might day. Step in their shoes and suddenly your "miserable existence" doesn't look so goddamn bad afterall. I'm not trying to be insensitive I want to make the point that most people no matter their ailment (social pyshical, mental etc) there are at least a billion people worse off. -- Posted by LightThisCity at 10:33 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Quote: from HoldingOnToNothing at 1:27 am on Aug. 20, 2008 Quote: from LightThisCity at 10:18 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 Looks mean everything these days.   We would know best. -- Posted by softbalhottie32 at 10:41 pm on Aug. 19, 2008 ya i kno how you feel ive never ever have a had a friend that dosnt use me it really sucks i have been a loner my whole life and it really hurts i know and i just got a friend that isn't using me but i dont know you to trust it is hard im here for you :) -- Posted by Jon1138 at 4:15 am on Aug. 20, 2008 I mostly enjoy being alone. It's peaceful. You can do whatever you want without really having to bother with other people. A few close friends is necessary and great, but besides that... I mean, I am not that social. -- Posted by medjai at 10:42 am on Aug. 20, 2008 There Is a rather distinct difference between having a few close friends and spending a lot of alone time than loneliness which is like being on a stranded island. -- Posted by Operate at 10:43 am on Aug. 20, 2008 Welcome to my world. I've been lonely for the past 20 years, with no one I personally consider a friend. Thankfully, things are definitely getting better.