-- Posted by wingedmisery at 4:42 pm on Aug. 20, 2008 My girlfriend is really mean to me and then apologizes the next day, but continues to be mean to me. I don't know if I should ask her why or just deal with it. I don't wanna stay in a pattern of unhealthy relationships, and I don't wanna break up with her... -- Posted by scatterbrainedfloozy at 4:44 pm on Aug. 20, 2008 talk to her about it. always the best option. -- Posted by apetape at 4:45 pm on Aug. 20, 2008 Communication is essential in relationships. -- Posted by drcutie0507 at 4:47 pm on Aug. 20, 2008 i think you should tekk her how u feel about it... -- Posted by xemoxisxlovesxcryx at 4:47 pm on Aug. 20, 2008 comunicate with her and if she continues tell her you dont want to be stuck in a relationship with someone who is unfair -- Posted by chickaflicka at 4:48 pm on Aug. 20, 2008 talk to her!!! then break up with her if it doesnt work... -- Posted by QisQ at 11:41 am on Aug. 21, 2008 Time for you to wear the pants!!!!! Man up! Its already a bad sign if she is in control all ready...don't become a doormat.