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-- Posted by Placebo Effect at 7:28 pm on Aug. 20, 2008

So. I was with this girl Kelly....for 2 and a half years. We lost it to each other and what not. A lot of emotional stuff. Grew up with each other and shared from 14-16 and a half with her.

Well I'm now 19.
We haven't been together for 2 and a half years.

She has a kid with her now boyfriend and he is 24, she is 18.

I talk to her mom like every day. We worked together and are very good friends.

She informs me that Kelly is being BEATEN by her boyfriend.

She saw bruises on her neck and her arm. She protests that him and her were "boxing"
When the mother knows damn well that its not the case...

Question is, WHAT DO I DO!?
I cant even talk to her. I try to fix it through her mom. And she wants to deny it all and act like nothing is going on. When through what I've seen/heard, she is in a very mentally and abusive relationship.

Can you give me your thoughts and any thing I can do to fix this. The mom can't push her too much or she will not talk to her and the boyfriend will take them to Mexico.....



-- Posted by Bearsy at 7:30 pm on Aug. 20, 2008

She's probably not pregnany relex


-- Posted by JakeG at 7:30 pm on Aug. 20, 2008

dude, i wish i could think of somthing...


-- Posted by rokkin1 at 7:33 pm on Aug. 20, 2008

Just talk to her, as a friend. Get to be friends where she trusts you again no matter what, and find out the truth. If he does beat her, call the cops and protect her.


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