-- Posted by Anonymous at 8:19 pm on Aug. 21, 2008 Me and my boyfriend have been dating 5 months. I believe the first couple of weeks or so, he would care for me like a couple should. I became more happier than I ever was. Then, eventually, he paid more attention to his armor than me, whenever I go to his house. Well, that problem became solved. He told me that everytime I come over he spent time with me and he has. The real problem is that I'm starting feel emo. I feel that I'm not hapy because of what he does. I acting like a complaining 5 year old child to get what I want. He only calls me at night like around 10ish or so. And, when I call him, he's usually busy. Oh, what do I do? And breaking up with him is not an option. I love him too much to do that. -- Posted by seekingsimplicity at 8:21 pm on Aug. 21, 2008 okay, i wont tell you that YOU SHOULD DUMP HIM, but what i will say is that whne a guy feels less interested in a relationship, he tends to use his hobbies as an excuse and a distraction. -- Posted by RIMHfire at 8:22 pm on Aug. 21, 2008 I don't get what the problem is. -- Posted by FiercexMelon at 8:22 pm on Aug. 21, 2008 Armor vs vagina? -- Posted by mcodeath at 3:23 am on Aug. 22, 2008 Quote: from RIMHfire at 10:22 pm on Aug. 21, 2008 I don't get what the problem is. Same here, that was almost impossible to read. -- Posted by garner at 8:14 am on Aug. 25, 2008 Go slowly, and yes, always keep in mind that her child(ren) are the priority. However, do NOT play it up and act like you're fine with the kids if you really don't feel that way. Always be honest with her, and yourself. Another thing to keep in mind, the child(ren)'s father - is he around still. Some men can be mature about the mom dating, others can be very obnoxious. One step at a time, try talking to her and seeing what she feels at this point. Good luck! :)