-- Posted by lulu06 at 9:54 pm on Aug. 21, 2008 Me and my boyfriend live like 1 1/2 apart, and I haven't talked to him in almost a month. The last time we talked, we weren't fighting, we weren't arguing, we were happy, content. His sister, whom he lives with, told me that he went to his mother's house for a while. Well, he was suppose to have been home LAST Friday. Every time I try to contact his sister, she ignores me. I can't call her, I don't have long distance, hence the reason I haven't talked to him in a month. Every time I send her a MySpace message, all she does is read it, not answer it. Even when it's just a friendly message, nothing to do with my boyfriend. I don't know if I've done something wrong and no one is telling me, or if his sister just doesn't like me anymore, or what. I don't know what I;m going to do if I lose the man I'm promised to, the man I want to spend the rest of my life with........ -- Posted by Dont Notice Me at 9:56 pm on Aug. 21, 2008 you'll get over it -- Posted by lulu06 at 9:58 pm on Aug. 21, 2008 How? I dated this guy in the 8th grade, lost him once, and now there might be the possibility of losing him again? -- Posted by Dont Notice Me at 9:59 pm on Aug. 21, 2008 you'll still get over it -- Posted by mcodeath at 3:25 am on Aug. 22, 2008 1 1/2 apart? In what way? Hours? Thats a joke if it is. And your myspace says your 20 and you don't have a phone capable of long distance? I can't say I know many logical guys who would go a month without talking to their girl, period. I'll have to add in a 'get over it.' -- Posted by maney45 at 7:49 pm on Aug. 22, 2008 He probably isn't interested anymore or maybe he is with someone else now. His sister probably isn't talking to you because she doesn't want to be the one to tell you. I agree...... get over it. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 8:07 pm on Aug. 22, 2008 He probably isn't interested anymore or maybe he is with someone else now. His sister probably isn't talking to you because she doesn't want to be the one to tell you. I agree...... get over it. Good advice, children! "Get over it!". Yeah, how about we try the mature, adult fashion, and NOT scare this girl away. We don't know that he's not interested, or cheating, or with someone new. We only know that he hasn't responded to the OP. His reason could be many things. She doesn't know it, nor do we. We should be helping her out, not being asshats and making her paranoid. 1 1/2 apart? In what way? Hours? Thats a joke if it is. And your myspace says your 20 and you don't have a phone capable of long distance? I can't say I know many logical guys who would go a month without talking to their girl, period One in a half hours is quite some distance. I hate it when my guy is thirty minutes from me. Love knows no boundaries, but pain does. And, not everyone can afford a cell phone, let alone one with long distance. Just because someone is twenty, doesn't mean they have all the 'new technology'. I can't say I know many logical guys who would go a month without talking to their girl, period. Sometimes, we all need a break from our significant others. "Get over it" is not a plausible response to this poor girl's suffering. -- Posted by garner at 8:14 am on Aug. 25, 2008 deffinily meet and get to know the kids, she loves her kids and they come first. once you get past there trust and they like you she will know that your good for her. if the kids are older don't tickle them they don't wanna bbothered just take them to something they like. don't be perverted, don't kiss the mother don't pinch her butt nothing like that- try not to fight with her, if they see you doing this it will not be good.