-- Posted by Anonymous at 4:56 am on Aug. 22, 2008 me and my current girlfriend have been having sex for 2 years and in that time i haven't been able to get her to orgasm in large part due to my extreme problem with premature ejaculation. for some reason i have never been able to last in bed, no matter what i do, i try masturbating before sex and stuff but nothing i have done has been able to keep me from finishing too soon. i'd say i normally last 20 seconds to a minute, unless its the first time, then i will normally cum within a few thrusts. I feel really bad that i cant last longer and get her to enjoy sex, but she has been so sweet about it, she doesn't mention it or complain about it like prior girlfriends have. its not like my last girlfriend who told all of her friends about it and i ended up being the butt of all of my schools jokes for my entire senior year of high school. my girlfriend being so awesome about it really makes me want to do better for her but i feel like ive tried everything and nothing works, help! -- Posted by Teenie1 at 4:59 am on Aug. 22, 2008 Do lots of foreplay. Me and my boyfriend have that problem, I have never had an orgasm because he lasts only about 10-15 minutes. Also go to the doctor, He/She should find ways for you to over-come this. =) -- Posted by Samthemagicman at 4:59 am on Aug. 22, 2008 Well... if you cant fix them problem... try and do it another way spend a lot of time with your head between her thighs? -- Posted by allsmiles at 5:00 am on Aug. 22, 2008 You don't need to use your penis. There are plenty of other ways to pleasure her - in fact, the majority of women don't orgasm directly due to a penis. -- Posted by BluShift at 5:00 am on Aug. 22, 2008 Try an extra condom. I think theres a lube that numbs a little too. If all else fails, apparently cocaine numbs quite well -- Posted by senorita smirnoff at 5:06 am on Aug. 22, 2008 ur best to speak to a doctor, awkward, but htere are sometimes medical reasons behind these things, so its best to see how they can help u. -- Posted by K r e s c e n d o at 5:07 am on Aug. 22, 2008 Quote: from BluShift at 1:00 pm on Aug. 22, 2008 If all else fails, apparently cocaine numbs quite well Really? Cool. Sexual foreplay. -- Posted by I am next at 5:09 am on Aug. 22, 2008 ha ha ha -- Posted by Anonymous at 5:24 am on Aug. 22, 2008 Quote: from Teenie1 at 4:59 am on Aug. 22, 2008 Do lots of foreplay. Me and my boyfriend have that problem, I have never had an orgasm because he lasts only about 10-15 minutes. Also go to the doctor, He/She should find ways for you to over-come this. =) Wow i would love to last for 10-15 mins, im sorry but i don't think that qualifies as premature ejaculation, not when there are people like me who can't even last a minute -- Posted by azmaatak at 8:25 am on Aug. 22, 2008 don't concentrate too much on the sex, think off other things and also talk dirty while having sex. Switch positions to decease sensitivity. Use your fingers on her G - SPOT. hit me up ladies, myspace.com/honest4life -- Posted by steven7 at 11:19 am on Aug. 26, 2008 eat pussy. if you do good, she will looove it. it may take a few times to perfect it. I always make my girl get off by eating her out first, then sexin her up and getiing her there again -- Posted by innocenteyes at 1:25 am on Aug. 28, 2008 strap on? -- Posted by Addicted 2 Candy at 1:47 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 do lots of foreplay and it wouldnt hurt to give her head b4 u start the intercourse. that way she would have already orgasmed