-- Posted by wingedmisery at 2:30 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 I confronted my girlfriend about always being mean to me and she said that she knows she is mean and that it isn't good. I told her it isn't fair because I treat her really well and she acknowledged that I do. I don't know what to do about it. I have been in several abusive relationships and I don't want this to be another, but I love her very much.. -- Posted by Trash at 2:32 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 Don't be in a relationship with someone who's just like all ehh and ahh. live your life as a humin instead -- Posted by HideOrSeek at 2:33 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 Maybe she's going through a lot. speak. -- Posted by HuffleHaire at 2:33 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 Give her an ultimatum. You deserve to be treated well. -- Posted by Rippzter at 2:36 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 Stand up and be a man -- Posted by wingedmisery at 2:37 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 Quote: from Rippzter at 2:36 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 Stand up and be a man I'm a woman -- Posted by La Motta at 2:38 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 Pimp slap her!!! -- Posted by agerask at 2:40 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 dump her. you dont deserve to be treated badly. find a girl who will appreciate your niceties -- Posted by xmikeox at 2:50 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 the only advice I can really give ya man is that everything happens for a reason -- Posted by nik1 at 8:50 am on Aug. 24, 2008 A relationship should be 50/50.  When there is an imbalance watch out.  She is  abusive, you know and she knows it.  You have told her and she continues.  It seems to me that she is intentionally disrespectful and the only way you can regain your respect in the relationship is to give her an ultimatum....stop it and regardless how much you love her you have no choice except to leave.  Start at once holding your hand up and waving it when she gets mean and tell her to stop. If you don't you cannot bitch about her being mean.  It's a vision into the future and if you want to be miserable hang around.  A tiger never loses its stripes.