-- Posted by MusicTrivium at 9:53 pm on Aug. 24, 2008 So there's this girl that I've been seeing for over 2 months now, but I haven't made a choice as to whether I should date her or not. Have any of you or (ARE ANY OF YOU RIGHT NOW GOING) gone through this before where you don't know what you want? Sometimes I like her and sometimes I don't. Sometimes I want to date her, and sometimes I change my mind and won't make a move! It's frustrating!!!!! Help!!!!! -- Posted by samanthaafacex at 10:01 pm on Aug. 24, 2008 yes, and i ended up not going through with it. if the feelings not completely there, then its not worth it in my book. you could always go for it and see what happens though? -- Posted by MusicTrivium at 10:17 pm on Aug. 24, 2008 Quote: from samanthaafacex at 10:01 pm on Aug. 24, 2008 yes, and i ended up not going through with it. if the feelings not completely there, then its not worth it in my book. you could always go for it and see what happens though? I want to go for it, but at the same time, I don't want to. I'm afraid if I make that choice to go out with her, then another girl that I'm interested will end up being interested in ME. Confusing, yes?   -- Posted by garner at 8:15 am on Aug. 25, 2008 Keep in mind that they are a packaged deal and that her first obligation is to her children.Ask her out and in time begin to spend time with her children as well.Invite the three of them out.Sigle mothers have to take things a little more seriously than others because they have the responsibilities of two people.If your intentions are good and genuine you should have no problem.Be patient with her as she may be slower to leap than others,and may have trust issues.Take things slow. -- Posted by nik1 at 4:24 am on Aug. 26, 2008 My experience has always been if I don't listen to my intuition I make big mistakes.  Your gut reaction is speaking to you but you aren't listening.  Don't waste her time or yours because you will never be 100% happy with her.