Pages: 1 2 3  Next -- Posted by pipersgirl at 4:11 am on Aug. 27, 2008 i started last night not taking my birth control im scared and excited at the same time. -- Posted by jamesish at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008 If thats what you want, go for it. -- Posted by iBritt at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008 How old are you? -- Posted by miNx at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008 how old are you.   -- Posted by pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008 almost 18 -- Posted by Mattie17 at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008 GO FOR IT -- Posted by Taylor636Baker at 4:13 am on Aug. 27, 2008 BADD idea But it's your life -- Posted by Eos at 4:14 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Me too. Lets do it together. LETS REPRODUCEEEEEE. -- Posted by shadowofchar at 4:14 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008 almost 18 ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby? -- Posted by shutter bugs at 4:14 am on Aug. 27, 2008 does the guy your having sex with know? why do you want a baby? are you ready? (not trying to be mean, just honest questions) -- Posted by miNx at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008 almost 18 ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby? ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart. -- Posted by pipersgirl at 4:16 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shutter bugs at 7:14 am on Aug. 27, 2008 does the guy your having sex with know? why do you want a baby? are you ready? (not trying to be mean, just honest questions) yes he knows. yes i want the baby. yes im ready. He has about 100 thousand put away right now that were going to use towards raiseing our baby. -- Posted by shutter bugs at 4:18 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from pipersgirl at 9:16 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shutter bugs at 7:14 am on Aug. 27, 2008 does the guy your having sex with know?    why do you want a baby?    are you ready?    (not trying to be mean, just honest questions) yes he knows. yes i want the baby. yes im ready. He has about 100 thousand put away right now that were going to use towards raiseing our baby. okay, have fun :) -- Posted by shadowofchar at 4:18 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008 almost 18    ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby? ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart. no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?! -- Posted by miNx at 4:19 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:18 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008 almost 18   ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?    ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart. no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?! whatever madre. shes 18 and shell be responsible for it. -- Posted by shadowofchar at 4:21 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:19 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:18 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008 almost 18        ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?     ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.    no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?! whatever madre. shes 18 and shell be responsible for it. i didn't realize that being eighteen years of age automatically means that you have the ability to support a child. oh, wait... that's because it DOESN'T. this isn't a matter that you can blow off with a 'whatever.' this is serious. this is a LIFE. -- Posted by Eos at 4:21 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:18 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008 almost 18   ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?    ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart. no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?! If shes in a loving realtionship and shes happy with being able to bring up a baby... then its fine. She said that her and her partner have money put away to bring the baby up. Its her choice. Shes not being selfish, she wants a family. -- Posted by shadowofchar at 4:22 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:21 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:18 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008 almost 18        ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?     ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.    no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!   If shes in a loving realtionship and shes happy with being able to bring up a baby... then its fine.   She said that her and her partner have money put away to bring the baby up. Its her choice.   Shes not being selfish, she wants a family. and what kind of example is she setting for the baby? 'don't go to college and get a job, depend on your boyfriend to provide for you and your children' -- Posted by Eos at 4:24 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:22 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:21 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:18 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008 almost 18   ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?     ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.   no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!      If shes in a loving realtionship and shes happy with being able to bring up a baby... then its fine.  She said that her and her partner have money put away to bring the baby up.    Its her choice.  Shes not being selfish, she wants a family. and what kind of example is she setting for the baby? 'don't go to college and get a job, depend on your boyfriend to provide for you and your children' Did she say she wasnt going to get a job? Did she say she was going to depend on her boyfriend for the rest of her life? I see where your coming from, but if she thinks that she is able to bring a baby into this world, then she will do her best to do so. -- Posted by shadowofchar at 4:27 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:24 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:22 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:21 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:18 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008 almost 18            ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?         ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.        no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!           If shes in a loving realtionship and shes happy with being able to bring up a baby... then its fine.       She said that her and her partner have money put away to bring the baby up.     Its her choice.       Shes not being selfish, she wants a family.    and what kind of example is she setting for the baby? 'don't go to college and get a job, depend on your boyfriend to provide for you and your children' Did she say she wasnt going to get a job?   Did she say she was going to depend on her boyfriend for the rest of her life? I see where your coming from, but if she thinks that she is able to bring a baby into this world, then she will do her best to do so. she's not yet 18 so she doesn't have her own house, she doesn't have a job YET and she shouldn't have a baby until she has a stable career, she can't get a college education while she has a baby unless she wants to neglect the baby... she's setting a poor example... the example she's setting is "don't have priorities... just do what you feel like doing... don't look for stability before having a child, if you want one just have it even if you're uneducated and unemployed" -- Posted by Eos at 4:29 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:27 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:24 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:22 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:21 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:18 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008 almost 18   ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?     ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.   no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!       If shes in a loving realtionship and shes happy with being able to bring up a baby... then its fine.   She said that her and her partner have money put away to bring the baby up.     Its her choice.   Shes not being selfish, she wants a family.   and what kind of example is she setting for the baby? 'don't go to college and get a job, depend on your boyfriend to provide for you and your children'    Did she say she wasnt going to get a job?  Did she say she was going to depend on her boyfriend for the rest of her life?    I see where your coming from, but if she thinks that she is able to bring a baby into this world, then she will do her best to do so. she's not yet 18 so she doesn't have her own house, she doesn't have a job YET and she shouldn't have a baby until she has a stable career, she can't get a college education while she has a baby unless she wants to neglect the baby... she's setting a poor example... the example she's setting is "don't have priorities... just do what you feel like doing... don't look for stability before having a child, if you want one just have it even if you're uneducated and unemployed" Ok. You've made your point. But in the end its her choice, you can't change it. -- Posted by Rob Jr at 4:30 am on Aug. 27, 2008 stop telling her wot she can and cannot do go with the flow -- Posted by RANDOMER56 at 4:31 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Haha well as long as ur ready and sure of wat u want theres no reason 2 be scared -- Posted by shadowofchar at 4:32 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Rob Jr at 4:30 am on Aug. 27, 2008 stop telling her wot she can and cannot do   go with the flow go with the flow? it's incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support and to whom you are not setting a good example, just because you feel like it... it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world whom you plan on supporting by just 'going with the flow' and seeing if money for baby food and rent happens to fly your way -- Posted by pipersgirl at 4:33 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:27 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:24 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:22 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:21 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:18 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008 almost 18   ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?     ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.   no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!       If shes in a loving realtionship and shes happy with being able to bring up a baby... then its fine.   She said that her and her partner have money put away to bring the baby up.     Its her choice.   Shes not being selfish, she wants a family.   and what kind of example is she setting for the baby? 'don't go to college and get a job, depend on your boyfriend to provide for you and your children'    Did she say she wasnt going to get a job?  Did she say she was going to depend on her boyfriend for the rest of her life?    I see where your coming from, but if she thinks that she is able to bring a baby into this world, then she will do her best to do so. she's not yet 18 so she doesn't have her own house, she doesn't have a job YET and she shouldn't have a baby until she has a stable career, she can't get a college education while she has a baby unless she wants to neglect the baby... she's setting a poor example... the example she's setting is "don't have priorities... just do what you feel like doing... don't look for stability before having a child, if you want one just have it even if you're uneducated and unemployed" i actually do have a job... i work part time as a nail tech at my ants. I'm actually currently in rolled in cosmetology school... -- Posted by Eos at 4:33 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:32 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Rob Jr at 4:30 am on Aug. 27, 2008 stop telling her wot she can and cannot do  go with the flow go with the flow? it's incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support and to whom you are not setting a good example, just because you feel like it... it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world whom you plan on supporting by just 'going with the flow' and seeing if money for baby food and rent happens to fly your way JUST SHUT UP! -- Posted by shadowofchar at 4:33 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:33 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:27 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:24 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:22 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:21 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:18 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 4:15 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 7:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from pipersgirl at 4:12 am on Aug. 27, 2008 almost 18                ALMOST 18? why the hell are you trying for a baby?! you obviously haven't gone to college yet, so what job do you plan on getting to support your baby? what kind of life will it have? or have you done no actual thinking? or are your thoughts that you will just have your parents pay for the baby?             ffuweee... oh shut up. its her life, stop overreacting like an old fart.            no, it's not just her life, it's the BABY'S life. it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support. it's totally selfish. what will the child's life be like?!                   If shes in a loving realtionship and shes happy with being able to bring up a baby... then its fine.           She said that her and her partner have money put away to bring the baby up.         Its her choice.           Shes not being selfish, she wants a family.        and what kind of example is she setting for the baby? 'don't go to college and get a job, depend on your boyfriend to provide for you and your children'     Did she say she wasnt going to get a job?       Did she say she was going to depend on her boyfriend for the rest of her life?     I see where your coming from, but if she thinks that she is able to bring a baby into this world, then she will do her best to do so.    she's not yet 18 so she doesn't have her own house, she doesn't have a job YET and she shouldn't have a baby until she has a stable career, she can't get a college education while she has a baby unless she wants to neglect the baby... she's setting a poor example... the example she's setting is "don't have priorities... just do what you feel like doing... don't look for stability before having a child, if you want one just have it even if you're uneducated and unemployed" i actually do have a job... i work part time as a nail tech at my ants. I'm actually currently in rolled in cosmetology school... that's wonderful, you've got a dead-end job and you're enrolled in something that will take time away from your newborn baby -- Posted by shadowofchar at 4:34 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Jenintendo at 4:33 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from shadowofchar at 12:32 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Rob Jr at 4:30 am on Aug. 27, 2008 stop telling her wot she can and cannot do       go with the flow    go with the flow? it's incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world that you cannot support and to whom you are not setting a good example, just because you feel like it... it is incredibly irresponsible to bring a child into the world whom you plan on supporting by just 'going with the flow' and seeing if money for baby food and rent happens to fly your way JUST SHUT UP! why should i sit and listen to someone make a mistake that will ruin an innocent life without replying? -- Posted by blueelectricguitar at 4:34 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Madre Mia! She's just said that her boyfriend has 100 thousand put away to raise the baby. She's almost 18. You're very quick to jump to the conclusion that she's an immature 18 year old. You don't even know her, so don't judge her situation. It sounds like she's thought about this a lot. Not every family should work the same way, otherwise the world would be very boring. So stop being so negative and start sending some positive vibes to the mother-to-be. Edit: That was aimed at shadowofchar. To the OP, good luck. I hope for all the best in your future with your family. xxx -- Posted by shadowofchar at 4:35 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from blueelectricguitar at 4:34 am on Aug. 27, 2008 Madre Mia! She's just said that her boyfriend has 100 thousand put away to raise the baby. She's almost 18. You're very quick to jump to the conclusion that she's an immature 18 year old. You don't even know her, so don't judge her situation. It sounds like she's thought about this a lot. Not every family should work the same way, otherwise the world would be very boring. So stop being so negative and start sending some positive vibes to the mother-to-be. xxx I'm not being "negative," I'm being REALISTIC. Pages: 1 2 3  Next