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-- Posted by anc8469 at 3:27 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
When you have kids are you going to whip them when they get into trouble? I will I mean now days everyone takes that as beating your kids. Its not like i'm going to leave bruises on them. I mean how else are you going to teach you kids better?
-- Posted by rawrSCARLETT at 3:28 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
no i love kids.. why would i hurt them
-- Posted by HXC at 3:28 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
No.
-- Posted by The Fantasy at 3:28 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Just yelling will work. No wait, telling them that Santa Claus isn't real. That'll scare them.
-- Posted by MystiqueBeauty16 at 3:28 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Yes. No abuse, just spanking with hands, no belts or other objects involved.
-- Posted by xJosex at 3:28 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Nope.
-- Posted by Dont Notice Me at 3:28 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
yep
-- Posted by Rodiggidy at 3:28 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
lol you can't control me
-- Posted by Mieux at 3:28 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
i'm not having kids. they are the most annoying little shits...
-- Posted by EndLess LoVe at 3:29 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
No.
-- Posted by pujolsfan at 3:30 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
im going to spank them if and when they need it
-- Posted by Chevy Jackson at 3:30 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
my parents always spanked me with a big wooden spoon. It hurt like hell, but I learned my lesson. I think its good to whip your kids, just as long as they know that you're only doing it as a punishment. It's not abuse unless you're actually hurting the kids (hurting as in damaging them.)
-- Posted by ijustdontknow at 3:30 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Nope. I would never abuse them.
-- Posted by auron at 3:30 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
no
-- Posted by Miden at 3:30 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Oh course I will.
-- Posted by monkeydoodle77 at 3:32 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
No?
-- Posted by Mieux at 3:32 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Quote: from Chevy Jackson at 6:30 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
my parents always spanked me with a big wooden spoon. It hurt like hell, but I learned my lesson. I think its good to whip your kids, just as long as they know that you're only doing it as a punishment. It's not abuse unless you're actually hurting the kids (hurting as in damaging them.)
you're supposed to discipline your kids, not punish them. punishing doesn't work because they don't know why what they did was wrong or what the right thing to do is
-- Posted by K r E s C e N d O at 3:32 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Disipline, eh? Yes. I will disipline them. The worse they do it, the harder it will be. [; Sounds kinky
-- Posted by 7hir7een at 3:46 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Yes. Duh.
-- Posted by Chava at 4:08 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
I have a son and he doesn't listen even if we smack him. He just goes on doing what we told him not to unless we put him in time out. So no we don't spank because he just laughs and he's one. Time out works better.
-- Posted by Kitty23 at 6:51 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
There are other ways other than spanking and beating that get kids to behave and respect you, only the good non lazy parents know how to do this. Spanking doesnt work, just look at 99% of people in prison or jail were spanked, plus most everyone I know who was spanked turned out horrible, did drugs, etc..
-- Posted by Kitty23 at 6:53 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Quote: from Rtheory at 3:32 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Disipline, eh? Yes. I will disipline them. The worse they do it, the harder it will be. [; Sounds kinky 
Thats the stupidest thing I ever heard, you want to hurt your children? Spanking is hitting you ignorant ass hole, the worse they do the harder it will be ? Do you even hear yourself? Thats sad and wrong, you plan to spank your kids before you even know their personalitys , let alone if they respond to some other form of discipline - and yes other things do work, good parents know this
-- Posted by jadedj01 at 7:01 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
Quote: from Chevy Jackson at 3:30 pm on Aug. 27, 2008
my parents always spanked me with a big wooden spoon. It hurt like hell, but I learned my lesson. I think its good to whip your kids, just as long as they know that you're only doing it as a punishment. It's not abuse unless you're actually hurting the kids (hurting as in damaging them.)
Since when is whipping/spanking a kid not hurting them? You are physically hitting them causing pain, so yes you are hurting them you dumb ass.
-- Posted by Born For This at 3:12 am on Aug. 28, 2008
No. There's other ways of teaching kids right from wrong
-- Posted by nik1 at 9:54 am on Aug. 28, 2008
I was never spanked and neither was my sister. Basically when an adult uses force it does not change their behavior but teaches them that adults will hit them so it becomes a trust and fear issue. It also is evidence that a parent does not have the brain power or patience to handle behavior in a more effective and non intimidating way. So, I don't ever see the need to spank a child.
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