-- Posted by Anonymous at 5:55 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 I always see girls and I'm like "I totally wish I was her." I want to be beautiful and smart and have a good personality, I don't though. I'm not like...hideous. I'm like 5'1, 100lbs, I have some acne but not as much as I used to. I just don't know what to do. At my lowest point I was completely obsessed with this girl. I started wearing my hair like hers, talking and acting like her. This was a couple of years ago, but I still get that "I wish I was her..." I don't know what to do. How can I be happy with me? -- Posted by Latin Muscle at 5:56 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Hang out  with people who like you for who you are. -- Posted by kay dee at 5:56 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 You're 5'1'' 100 lbs? Shut the hell up. acne's temporary. At least you're not morbidly obese. -- Posted by Dont Notice Me at 5:56 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 .......sit in the mirror and find everything good about the reflection -- Posted by BigWill54 at 5:57 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 just be yourself nothing wrong with u hell im 6'3 285lbs im overwait but i play football so it don't seem to bad but i never wish to be someone eles cause i like my life the way it is just be thankful for what and who u got -- Posted by Anonymous at 5:58 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from latin muscle at 5:56 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Hang out  with people who like you for who you are. I do though. My boyfriend loves me more than anything and doesn't even care about other girls. I have a few friends and they all really like me, personality included. -- Posted by runthespread at 5:59 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 You just gotta realize what's best for you. You can copy someone else all the time because their look and what they do may not be what looks good for you. That just makes it worse. -- Posted by MystiqueBeauty16 at 6:00 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Lol wow, I'm 5"1' and 101 pounds with some acne going away! I know I look horrible in that pic from my IB a year ago but I look a lot better now. I used to have horrible self-confidence until I started ignoring what other people thought or said about me, good or bad, started dressing nicer and taking better care of myself. Pampering goes a long way in self-confidence, especially in Girl world, trust me, i've been there, done that. -- Posted by Latin Muscle at 6:00 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 5:58 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from latin muscle at 5:56 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Hang out with people who like you for who you are.     I do though. My boyfriend loves me more than anything and doesn't even care about other girls. I have a few friends and they all really like me, personality included. Then why care about looks? Looks mean shit. Be happy for who you are. -- Posted by Anonymous at 6:04 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from latin muscle at 6:00 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 5:58 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from latin muscle at 5:56 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Hang out  with people who like you for who you are.        I do though. My boyfriend loves me more than anything and doesn't even care about other girls. I have a few friends and they all really like me, personality included. Then why care about looks? Looks mean shit. Be happy for who you are. I don't know. I feel inadequate. -- Posted by mcrfool at 6:05 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:58 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from latin muscle at 5:56 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Hang out with people who like you for who you are.     I do though. My boyfriend loves me more than anything and doesn't even care about other girls. I have a few friends and they all really like me, personality included. Why whine then? It's hard to find people who DO like you for who you are. Don't take them for granted. -- Posted by Anonymous at 6:05 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from mcrfool at 6:05 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 8:58 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from latin muscle at 5:56 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Hang out  with people who like you for who you are.        I do though. My boyfriend loves me more than anything and doesn't even care about other girls. I have a few friends and they all really like me, personality included. Why whine then? It's hard to find people who DO like you for who you are. Don't take them for granted. I'm not whining. Shut the fuck up. -- Posted by raza301 at 6:09 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 i bet your hotter then you think -- Posted by prsnltyquizaddict at 6:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 i have extremely low self-esteem and i hate it, but i can't seem to change it very easily. it usually makes me hate myself because i'll accidently let an LSE comment slip out around my boyfriend and he gets upset about it and then i feel terrible because i unintentionally made him feel bad.