-- Posted by pumpkin475 at 8:58 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 i've heard the phrase "there's no point in crying about it" all my life. i never really understood exactly why someone would think that crying is a great way to let your emotions out and i still think that......but in certain situations, crying really doesn't do any good (heed that i'm saying in certain situations) i mean i am in college now. i'm used to seeing my fiance every single day.....but now i'm in college.....only see him on the weekend. i miss him so badly and it makes me wanna cry. but......if i let myself, i'd be crying every single night.....and that does no good.... so in that case, when i feel my throat tightening up as if i'm fixing to cry.....i just dont. is that weird? mentally i wanna cry but i just dont....i go on about my business....it's all i can do after all *sigh* anyone have similar things to say on this subject? -- Posted by the5e at 8:59 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 it means stop complaining and do something to fix it.. as opposed to acting helpless and trying to get someone else to do it for you -- Posted by stickwithit at 9:00 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 i think youll adapt to not seeing him so much -- Posted by pumpkin475 at 9:01 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from the5e at 8:59 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 it means stop complaining and do something to fix it.. as opposed to acting helpless and trying to get someone else to do it for you did u even read my whole post....cus if u didn't, u really should do that from now on -- Posted by jamesshadowwolf at 9:01 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from the5e at 8:59 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 it means stop complaining and do something to fix it.. as opposed to acting helpless and trying to get someone else to do it for you this ^^ -- Posted by plumc0la at 9:03 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 I love a good cry once in a while. It helps a lot. -- Posted by ErnestoTheTrippyOne at 9:08 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from jamesshadowwolf at 9:01 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from the5e at 8:59 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 it means stop complaining and do something to fix it.. as opposed to acting helpless and trying to get someone else to do it for you   this ^^ I don't think either of you were paying any attention to the topic at all.   It's okay to cry. If you're sad let it out. It's not healthy to keep things in like that. The thing that bothers me most is that most of the people that say "stop crying" are the people who have nothing to cry about. -- Posted by pumpkin475 at 9:12 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from ErnestoTheTrippyOne at 9:08 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from jamesshadowwolf at 9:01 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from the5e at 8:59 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 it means stop complaining and do something to fix it.. as opposed to acting helpless and trying to get someone else to do it for you this ^^ I don't think either of you were paying any attention to the topic at all. It's okay to cry. If you're sad let it out. It's not healthy to keep things in like that. The thing that bothers me most is that most of the people that say "stop crying" are the people who have nothing to cry about. exactly thank you, ErnestoTheTrippyOne -- Posted by MakingaDifference001 at 9:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Toddlers often have the same problem concerning their mothers, but they eventually grow up and I'm sure you will too. -- Posted by pumpkin475 at 9:14 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Quote: from MakingaDifference001 at 9:13 pm on Aug. 27, 2008 Toddlers often have the same problem concerning their mothers, but they eventually grow up and I'm sure you will too. where u trying to be condescending or were you not and just came off that way......cus u referred to me needing to grow up -- Posted by wasteland2008 at 3:07 pm on Aug. 29, 2008 yeah i'm the same way... i miss my love so bad it hurts, whats bst is make a great friend that you can always have fun with. My bestfriend always knows how to make me happy and he keeps me happy alot..