-- Posted by Anonymous at 12:24 pm on Aug. 31, 2008 Ok, so on a normal weekend, i spend most of my time with my girlfriend...we don't go out to the bars or anything like that, we usually go to a movie or do something else fun, but this weekend my girlfriend was out of town... So I hung out with a bunch of my other friends that i normally don't get to do things with because i'm with my girlfriend. I HAD A BLAST! I went to a bar where some friends were playing in a local band, I went bowling, and I hung out with friends till like 2 in the morning! (I normally don't get to do any of those things) But the only problem is now my girlfriend is pissed at me because I had fun without her! Ridiculous, right? While I was at the bar, my gf texted me and said "I'm glad to hear your having so much fun without me." (she was obviously sarcastic) and I said right back "well, you're having fun too, right?" I don't see any reason why I shouldn't get to have fun while she's not here! Later she asked me why I had such a problem being in my room alone. I told her I didn't have a problem with that, it's just that my friends called me and wanted to so stuff, so I wasn't going to say no! I think its absolutely ridiculous that she expects me to sit in my room on my ass and wait for her to call. I'm not going to do that. I am a very social person and she isn't, and that's why we get into most of our arguments... I made sure that throughout the weekend I was reminding her that I loved her and that I was thinking about her/missing her (you can gag if you want) but apparently that wasn't enough. Please agree with me and tell me that I didn't do anything wrong...I just had a good time and she really has no reason to be mad at me. -- Posted by kupal vibes at 12:27 pm on Aug. 31, 2008 i think your relationship won't work -- Posted by Paper Dolls at 12:27 pm on Aug. 31, 2008 You didn't do anything wrong. You're entitled to have fun without her. -- Posted by LEONIDOS at 12:28 pm on Aug. 31, 2008 how gf know you were out -- Posted by Free 2b Me at 12:28 pm on Aug. 31, 2008 I totally agree with u and sounds like you've handled it well (even if it doesnt seem like it) You probably loved it so much because you dont do it all the time, if you did then it wouldn't be anything special....makes sense! No idea why shes funny/jealous over it, sounds quite insecure. Just let her calm down and see sense -- Posted by YeahBoii at 12:28 pm on Aug. 31, 2008 Shes selfish.