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-- Posted by Anonymous at 7:27 am on Sep. 1, 2008

If a guy you were into bluntly asked you if you wanted to hook up, would you be offended, or thrilled?


-- Posted by ijustdontknow at 7:28 am on Sep. 1, 2008

I would ask him to please gtfo


-- Posted by SaintKris at 7:29 am on Sep. 1, 2008

Thrilled if she hotty


-- Posted by Latin Muscle at 7:29 am on Sep. 1, 2008

the normally say yes.


-- Posted by Tigerhawk at 7:29 am on Sep. 1, 2008

Depends...does the person whos asking me to hook up have a moustache?


-- Posted by JamesBrauman at 7:30 am on Sep. 1, 2008

Quote: from Tigerhawk at 7:29 am on Sep. 1, 2008


Depends...does the person whos asking me to hook up have a moustache?

Only for you, baby.


-- Posted by Eos at 7:30 am on Sep. 1, 2008

Anon, LEAVE.


-- Posted by igotaquestion at 7:30 am on Sep. 1, 2008

I would be happy if he asked me that


-- Posted by SaintKris at 7:31 am on Sep. 1, 2008

oh....I didn't read "GUY"...... ya I'd say GTFO!!! like Ijustdontknow


-- Posted by Jay JWLH at 7:38 am on Sep. 1, 2008

If it was a girl, then I would be offended. I can understand if she made a mistake, but I don't roll like that. At least not usually.


-- Posted by breannafhchick06 at 7:40 am on Sep. 1, 2008

prob not


-- Posted by cherrys77 at 7:42 am on Sep. 1, 2008

Interested.


-- Posted by EllaLovesYou at 7:49 am on Sep. 1, 2008

Quote: from Jenintendo at 7:30 am on Sep. 1, 2008


Anon, LEAVE.


Now!


-- Posted by Anonamouse at 7:50 am on Sep. 1, 2008

hehe, I done this before. I think she was a little offended because I didnt actually like her personality or anything, I just wantd sex. I wanted her to give me head, I mean she was okay looking but not really. But this was ages ao.
I would say most girls would feel offended becuase a hook up is because the guy wants sex and no a relationship.


-- Posted by Disposition at 7:59 am on Sep. 1, 2008

ANGRY.
I would roll my eyes and walk away.


-- Posted by CrackerJax at 12:13 pm on Sep. 1, 2008

If I knew the guy, it might be funny... but if it was some random guy... well that would just be weird.


-- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 12:34 pm on Sep. 1, 2008

I'd be offended, especially if it was a guy friend of mine. I would have thought they would have known me better than that. Sex is not something you just...do for the fun o fit.


-- Posted by musicdreamer26 at 3:43 pm on Sep. 2, 2008

Quote: from ijustdontknow at 10:28 am on Sep. 1, 2008


I would ask him to please gtfo

qft.


-- Posted by RachLeigh13 at 9:55 pm on Sep. 2, 2008

I'd be a bit offended to be honest. Thrilled someone is interested in me, but offended he would think I'm that kind of girl.


-- Posted by Lillylove at 1:29 pm on Sep. 7, 2008

Quote: from TigressaLynnMae at 12:34 pm on Sep. 1, 2008


I'd be offended, especially if it was a guy friend of mine. I would have thought they would have known me better than that. Sex is not something you just...do for the fun o fit.

    On the contrary, sex is what you do for the fun and pleasure the of it. The relationship comes later, if at all. Every sex partner  doesn't have to be marriage material. In fact, few are.


-- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 2:31 pm on Sep. 7, 2008


 On the contrary, sex is what you do for the fun and pleasure the of it. The relationship comes later, if at all. Every sex partner  doesn't have to be marriage material. In fact, few are.

I'm not saying it has to marriage material...but I wouldn't equate sex with anything other than dual love. AKA: Love from and for both parties.

I don't have sex for the fun of it. I don't have sex because I'm bored. When I have sex, it's making love. It's not a fuck. It's not a one night stand. It's making love. It's being with someone I love, someone I'm in a comitted relationship with, someone that I know, as far more than a friend. The relationship comes long before. A year, if not longer, before, actually. I can have fun, making love, but I can't have fun, having sex. I don't have sex, just for the pleasure. I can get pleasure, in making love, but I'm not going to have a fuck, just b/c I need to get my rocks off. I dont need sex. Sex isn't a necessity to live.


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