-- Posted by wingedmisery at 12:22 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 My girlfriend and I broke up on friday. I am one that tends to talk to people about my problems or issues, which my ex is not and doesn't talk to anyone about anything. Well I told a few of our friends that we broke up but I'm sure she won't tell them so I told them not to tell anyone. Should or shouldn't the fact that we broke up be a secret? -- Posted by BrokenBelief at 12:24 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 If one of you doesn't want it to be, then it shouldn't.  It involves both of you, and if you want to talk about it, you should. -- Posted by Afu at 12:24 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 no -- Posted by mendingheart518 at 12:24 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 I guess it really depends on if you and her feel comfortable if people knew. I don't see the big deal on keeping it a secret though because if you 2 broke up for good then eventually it'll be found out anyways -- Posted by vicky91 at 12:24 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 they are going to figure it out eventually -- Posted by piemaster at 12:24 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 Wouldn't your friends find out anyway? I think it is better that your friends know. -- Posted by guitar freak at 12:25 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 it shouldnt be a secret theres no reason for it -- Posted by its only me at 12:25 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 nope -- Posted by LindaRains93 at 12:29 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 i dont see why it has to be a secret, i mean yall broke up....ok? -- Posted by DiscoTraxx at 12:29 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 Why should it be a secret? If you broke up permanently, then what good is it to keep it all to yourself? -- Posted by HuffleHaire at 12:36 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 You are no longer attached to her. If talking is what will make you feel better, that's what matters. Go for it.