-- Posted by Zdrav at 12:39 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 There's this girl I (used to) like, but I feel guilty because I only like her because she's really pretty. I've hung out with her a few times, and though I don't want to be cruel, she really doesn't have any personality. And it's not just as if she's brushing me off either, because I've seen her with other guys and she's always like that. It's not the haughty kind of disinterest; it's more like really introverted anti-socialness. I want to keep trying because I'm willing to bet many guys who liked her gave up quickly. But if there's no chemistry, I feel like I'm being a shallow bastard paying so much attention to a girl who I don't actually enjoy being around. Can anybody offer thoughts? -- Posted by shen10200 at 12:40 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 look for another girl or maybe she was raped or someting -- Posted by Amay at 12:40 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 Get to know her and maybe theres things about her you might like that you have in common with her too. -- Posted by Z o E at 12:40 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 she might have some sort of interesting bit about her? -- Posted by Lewdness at 12:42 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 I don't understand why this is an issue. If you don't feel like there's chemistry and she's not showing any particular interest, then go elsewhere. She will find someone who she can open up to and you will find someone who suits your needs as well. -- Posted by armygirll88 at 12:42 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 if she doesn't have much of a personality you can either keep trying or just tell her the truth. -- Posted by EmmitWinchell at 12:42 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 keep trying with her she might need you but is not sure how to act around you other than completely uninterested way. -- Posted by Zdrav at 12:44 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 Nah, if she was interested, she's had many opportunities to drop hints. I don't think she likes me that much and I'm probably teetering on annoying territory now. Even if somehow I do get her to go out with me, having relaxed fun with her will be like drawing blood from a stone. Not worth it. There are plenty of fun girls who might like me out there. -- Posted by MakingaDifference001 at 12:47 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 Program her to have a personality. -- Posted by fantazia at 2:40 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 I know what is this phenomenon, why don't hot girls have a personality?