-- Posted by Anonymous at 4:33 am on Sep. 5, 2008 this is related to another topic about knowing if your bf/gf.  im 17 and have been hanging out with this girl for 2 months. i want to make her my gf but how do i go about doing it. am i juat suposed to walk up to her and say be my gf. is it that easy. -- Posted by silverrose42 at 5:00 am on Sep. 5, 2008 You have to just ask her... it's really easy... and if she says no, then sucks for you. -- Posted by beerrulz at 5:08 am on Sep. 5, 2008 ask her if she wants to go to the cinema or something! -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 5:11 am on Sep. 5, 2008 First off, it's 'How to'. Second off, just ask her! -- Posted by Lillylove at 1:18 pm on Sep. 7, 2008 I don't care whether a boy comes out and asks me to be his girl friend or not. If we see a lot of each other and are having good sex, it is just a practical fact that we are bf and gf. If one of us wants to be completely exclusive, then we need to come to some agreement about it so we both understand what is expected. -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 2:32 pm on Sep. 7, 2008 If we see a lot of each other and are having good sex, it is just a practical fact that we are bf and gf. But what if it's just sex? Dating is when you're exclusive. You have to define that exclusiveness, for, without that definition, you don't know left from right. -- Posted by cha chi at 9:34 pm on Sep. 7, 2008 You want to be a little nicer than just "want to be my gf" ... just ask her to go steady if she will know what that means. Or tell her that you would like to be more than friends, and let the topic explore itself and it gives her a chance to decide whether or not she wants to be your gf.