-- Posted by Anonymous at 10:24 am on Sep. 5, 2008 I am 15 years old and I want a man. I don't want a boy my age because they are too silly and I never feel safe with them. Recently I have been feeling so depressed over nothing and I wish I had a nice guy to keep my company and have a really strong relationship with someone. Anyone else feel a man would make life seem so much better when you're felling low? -- Posted by wolfie92 at 10:25 am on Sep. 5, 2008 HAAAA! lol at your patheticness for posting this XD and no, ive never felt like that... -- Posted by MystiqueBeauty16 at 10:27 am on Sep. 5, 2008 I've  felt like that before, but not now. I have a guy who has a crush on me right now, but I don't want a relationship right now, to be perfectly honest. Sometimes they just aren't worth it, but I can get where you're coming from. -- Posted by IceTeaEdwin at 10:27 am on Sep. 5, 2008 Quote: from wolfie92 at 10:25 am on Sep. 5, 2008 HAAAA! lol at your patheticness for posting this XD and no, ive never felt like that... Lulz, this made me laugh... Dun get involved with older men...not at your age ^-^ -- Posted by MiSS SARAH at 10:28 am on Sep. 5, 2008 I understand what you mean, i have felt that way before too. -- Posted by nicegirl4060 at 10:29 am on Sep. 5, 2008 u dont need a man to feel better.... u just need to have fun and sone guy will come along dont try to find one he will come when its time -- Posted by kissmeintherain91 at 10:33 am on Sep. 5, 2008 your lookin pretty desprate and anyone who is 15 does not need a MAN -- Posted by Maxxie at 10:34 am on Sep. 5, 2008 lol a relationship wont magically fix your personal issues if anything.. make em' worse -- Posted by Rhiaa at 10:34 am on Sep. 5, 2008 e-date. -- Posted by The Professional at 10:35 am on Sep. 5, 2008 If you're looking for a person to fulfill you, you are going to be sadly disappointed. Not to mention the relationship will fail completely. -- Posted by zamrambo at 10:39 am on Sep. 5, 2008 Quote: from wolfie92 at 10:25 am on Sep. 5, 2008 HAAAA! lol at your patheticness for posting this XD and no, ive never felt like that... wow, you're a bitch. -- Posted by whoami111 at 10:46 am on Sep. 5, 2008 you have to get out of the fantasy of getting an older man. Because if they are willing to date you it could mean they either want to use you or they could be a pedophile. -- Posted by Al Legator at 10:46 am on Sep. 5, 2008 Feeling depressed can easily lead you to not-so-smart behaviour, such as allowing an adult man into your teenage life and fantasies. Girls looking up to older men is not uncommon at all - it may seem like they have things all figured out, have power and prestige(money, car, maybe house). But you could be caught between dorky 15 year old boys and adult men who should be having normal, adult relationships with adult women. A man who would be having any kind of deep emotional relationship with a 15 yr old girl is incapable of having a deep or lasting one with a woman. So, age aside, he is not an adult. He would be, however, using her. I know 15 seems old when you are 15 but you have lots of time to find someone nearer your age, who is more mature and has similar interests and life experience. All of which talks only to your loneliness. You don't seem to understand the nature of your depressed feelings so please talk to a school counsellor about them. -- Posted by Natsy at 10:52 am on Sep. 5, 2008 oh he'll keep you company, but he'll want a ... how do i put this nicely...a physical relationship as well, for his troubles lol xx having an older bloke won't solve all your problems, in fact, it will probably create more, so i'd say don't g out with anyone over 17 xx though you seem a bit emotionally unstable so i'd say don't date, full stop. -- Posted by rickyspeople at 10:57 am on Sep. 5, 2008 they seem like the resolution, then once you get one they become the problem! also, you're too young for an older man. and, no, i don't consider guys under 20-21 to be men. -- Posted by austin s23 at 10:59 am on Sep. 5, 2008 uhh go find someone duh -- Posted by tennisplayerV2 at 11:10 am on Sep. 5, 2008 wow ok...don't make yourself soud so desperate.  Just wait for one to come along and he will -- Posted by Miss Prophetess at 7:56 pm on Sep. 6, 2008 You never feel safe with a boy your age, but you would feel safer with a MAN?  You shouldn't feel that way.  If a man is having a relationship with an underage girl, there's nothing safe about him.  I agree with Al Legator:  "A man who would be having any kind of deep emotional relationship with a 15 yr old girl is incapable of having a deep or lasting one with a woman."