-- Posted by Anonymous at 7:38 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 I have already had an abortion and it scared the shit out of me.. so much that i stopped having sex for years. I had sex for the first time in a very long time last week and i was so horny that i didn't care about having a condom. It didn't last that long cause it was with my ex boyfriend and he hasn't fucked anyone in about a year so... yeah well he only stuck it in twice and it was for no longer than 2 or 3 seconds each time..   he didn't bust until after like 2 minutes of me giving him a hand job. Heres my problem though.. im not gonna get my period until sometime next week.. i just feel pretty paranoid cause my stomach feels swollen at times.. i feel like i wanna puke, im a little nauseus and i just feel like crap overall i dont wanna have to go through this shit again.. i havent even called my ex and we were supposed to get back together.. (btw im too young to be having kids, im in college) idk i need real advice not rude comments.. help   -- Posted by GmanXXVI at 7:39 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 just you reacting to stress i suppose? -- Posted by chelseamorgan at 7:39 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Maybe you're feeling sick from like period cramps. -- Posted by the5e at 7:39 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 this story is full of sadness and fail -- Posted by theboxman at 7:39 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 then stop letting people stick their penis in your without a condom -- Posted by xsnortingxashesx at 7:39 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Well, the nasea thing usually starts in the 2-8th week, so that could be a sign. The swollen thing wouldn't have started yet. All of those could also just be PMS as well. -- Posted by cjromanos at 7:40 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Im thinking it might be more of a mental thing, especially if he didnt bust until you gave him a handjob -- Posted by cuttergirl13 at 7:40 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 its probably just stress -- Posted by livelaughlove15 at 7:40 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 just breathe u may just be sick... -- Posted by Violently Happy at 7:40 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 U wouldn't be pregnant and feelin sick so quick stop being a puss -- Posted by guitar lover at 7:40 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 did you consider the day after pill.. but i guess its a little late for that. i hope your okay just try your hardest to not freak out until your periods suppose to come. Best of luck and your very strong for going through that once. -- Posted by Violagirl19 at 7:41 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Well... I'm pretty sure that you wouldn't be experiencing any signs of pregnancy after only what... a week or two?  But seriously... after having experienced it before, you should be smart enough to use a friggin condom.  I mean... really it's not like you were so horny that you couldn't stop for a minute.  If you do get pregnant, maybe this time you'll learn your lesson. -- Posted by Anonymous at 7:42 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Quote: from xsnortingxashesx at 7:39 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Well, the nasea thing usually starts in the 2-8th week, so that could be a sign. The swollen thing wouldn't have started yet. All of those could also just be PMS as well. i started feeling all this the day after. -- Posted by mrlupo8 at 7:44 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 another abortion -- Posted by MEnOC at 7:52 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 srsly, be more RESPONSIBLE -- Posted by XXeasysuicideXX at 8:12 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 the stress is getting to you sit back and chill and wait to c what happens no sense of freaking out when u dont even kno if u have a problem yet -- Posted by dunebug at 8:28 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 You wouldn't be feeling symptoms the day after or even a week after. Technically, you're not even pregnant until around 14 days after intercourse. It takes about 5-7 days for the sperm to make it to your tube, if there's an egg there, it takes another 5-7 days for that fertilized egg to get back down the uterus, implant and set off hormones. Until that point, you're not pregnant and have no symptoms. So your symptoms are likely a cold, flu, food poisoning or you psyching yourself out, not pregnancy. It's very unlikely that you're pregnant from that alone. -- Posted by Anonymous at 8:31 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Quote: from dunebug at 8:28 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 You wouldn't be feeling symptoms the day after or even a week after. Technically, you're not even pregnant until around 14 days after intercourse. It takes about 5-7 days for the sperm to make it to your tube, if there's an egg there, it takes another 5-7 days for that fertilized egg to get back down the uterus, implant and set off hormones. Until that point, you're not pregnant and have no symptoms.   So your symptoms are likely a cold, flu, food poisoning or you psyching yourself out, not pregnancy. It's very unlikely that you're pregnant from that alone. thanks :) i feel much better now. -- Posted by dunebug at 10:24 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Np, good luck!