-- Posted by cristilya at 10:03 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 I just found out that she cheated on my dad when he was at work. i can't believe she would do that she sucks big time.It opened a wound that took a long time to heel. and i had to find out by a lady that hates my mom.I know shes telling the truth because my mom didn't say no.WHY??? i ask her she says i don't want to talk about it. Well END OF RANT Sorry not done yet.i feel emotionally tried. should i tell my brother or keep it to my self? he has a right know right or wrong.Life suck.     hows  your day. hope it was better then mine. -- Posted by coloring the void at 10:03 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 what a slut. -- Posted by atomictastic at 10:04 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Sorry to hear that *hugs* I see it's hurting you, talk to your mom about it... My day's been ok -- Posted by The Artery at 10:05 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Tell your dad. -- Posted by Neon Lights at 10:09 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Quote: from siddox3 at 10:05 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Tell your dad. that would kinda suck -- Posted by cristilya at 10:10 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Quote: from Rawkstar at 10:04 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Sorry to hear that *hugs* I see it's hurting you, talk to your mom about it... My day's been ok thats the problem she won't talk she said that shes forgiven by God and it's none of my business. -- Posted by cristilya at 10:12 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Quote: from Rawkstar at 10:04 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Sorry to hear that *hugs* I see it's hurting you, talk to your mom about it... My day's been ok oh and thank for the hug -- Posted by the real anti christ at 10:12 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Does she also swallow? -- Posted by cristilya at 10:48 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Quote: from the real anti christ at 10:12 pm on Sep. 5, 2008 Does she also swallow? i don't know -- Posted by Seanee at 2:37 am on Sep. 6, 2008 I understand what you are going through and can completely understand how you must be feeling now. You're probably thinking "Wtf? Why is my mum doing this?" and that is perfectly one hundred percent alright to think like that. You have to understand that you're not going through this alone, lots of people are experiencing the same thing you are experiencing now and I admire yourself coming to talk and seek help about it, it's very brave of yourself. First of all you need to talk to your mum, I know you said she said she doesn't want to talk about it - but that's not good enough. Take her out somewhere, go grab a coffee or some lunch and just gently lean into the conversation, she'll be so relaxed she might just open up - the coffee is a perfect solution if the conversation gets awkward and silent. I think you should tell your brother what you know, but don't tell him to overact and go mad - as I know most brothers do this as a protective sort of back fall. So talk with her, communication is key. -- Posted by Miss Prophetess at 9:39 pm on Sep. 6, 2008 Tell her you feel she betrayed you. She won't be forgiven by God unless she's truly sorry for what she's done, and I doubt she's sorry.  She's just trying to make herself feel better.